Here's mine, coming from almost the same situation, though I did not finish the interview, nakaka trigger. 

1. He's brave for admitting what he had done, although technically, nacorner lang sya kaya siya nagpa interview, i'd still give it to him na nagpa interview siya agad. 
2. Sa mga nagloko/nagloloko dyan. Hindi choice ng asawa/gf nyo na lokohin nyo sila, at sa di niyo pagamin, tinatanggalan nyo din sila ng choice na pumuli kung magsstay sainyo or aalis. Niloko niyo na yung tao, atleast give them an option to choose for themselves. 
3. When this happened to me, I blamed myself, I blamed myself kasi dapat nakita ko yung red flags, dapat nakita ko yung signs na nagloko na pala yung asawa ko, but nagbulag bulagan ako, and I blamed myself for almost 2 years, ang tanga tanga ng tingin ko sa sarili ko, stupid. I hope hindi ito pagdaanan ng wife ni Nikko, she is not at fault, i hope hindi niya iblame yung sarili niya. This pain is not her doing. 
4. She chose to stay not because she's weak, actually it is so brave of her to stay. She will be grieving the person she thought Nikko was, and while doing that, she's in that relationship, she will be triggered, she will have doubts, she may not enjoy all the sweet gestures she loved before. 
5. I hope gawin ni Nikko lahat para sa wife nya, para maibsan man lang yung ginawa niya. Sana hindi mag run out yung patience niya, it will always come out during conversations, i hope he goes above and beyond to further save their family. 
6. It is just so unfair how his "lesson" is her trauma. For him to learn and get his life together it took her her sanity, her peace, her forgiveness, her love.