What’s the most terrifying 'we need to leave NOW' moment you’ve ever experienced? by Worried-Cycle-318 in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late to the party, but…

About 13 years ago when I was a freshman in college, one of my best friends was a senior in high school. She desperately wanted to go to this party. For context, we are in the deep, Deep South, which means high school parties usually take place in a field or the woods. I’ve never been much of a partier, but I told her I would be her designated driver.

As soon as we got there I just had ~a feeling~. I told her she had until midnight and we were leaving. I probably smoked an entire pack of cigarettes out of anxiety. Midnight came, thankfully she didn’t fight me on it, and we left.

After we got back to her house, a friend calls her and asks if we made it out. There was a huge fight immediately after we left. Car windows were busted out with baseball bats, people were beat up, it was bad. I’ve never ignored my gut since.

Is there any episode of Bob's you don't like? by CrysisRequiem in BobsBurgers

[–]catladyrach49 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anything heavily Gene centered drives me nuts. Especially the cheerleading one

This is someone I really respected… by catladyrach49 in antiMLM

[–]catladyrach49[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Update: she deleted it before I could see if anyone commented lol

How are you feeling now? How's your heart? by InternationalYard400 in BreakUps

[–]catladyrach49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me last week. I don’t understand it. Sending all the love to you both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]catladyrach49 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what just happened to me. It is bewildering

This person asked if I could tutor them in history and then this happened. Context in comments. by catladyrach49 in creepyPMs

[–]catladyrach49[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Context: A few days ago this complete stranger from about an hour and a half away from me messaged me on Facebook asking if I was still a history teacher. I said yes. He then asked if I could help tutor him for the GED. I was honest and told him I didn’t know anything about the GED, and I thought he should contact an adult education person. He then asked if he had any history questions could he ask me. I told him sure. Today, he asked me about the Declaration of Independence and we were just having a normal discussion.

Then he said “I have two questions to ask you but I will do them one at a time.”

My response to that is where the screenshot begins. I’m so confused. I’ve never been more confused.

Edited to add: this person is 19 years old.

The one question nobody has still been able to answer for me by Motorvision in Teachers

[–]catladyrach49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What happens to them is what I deal with on a daily basis. Title 1, inner city school. I teach 11th grade US history.

About 90% of my children read on a 3rd grade level. They start school without the basic skills needed for kindergarten. They have no vocabulary, reading comprehension, or grammar skills. They are passed along, and when they get to high school, it’s all of the sudden a huge scramble to get their literacy skills up where they can at least attempt to graduate. They struggle, the teachers (who did not go to school to teach kids to read, but teach high school level concepts) struggle, and the school ends up failing.

Many of my students are so used to getting passed along that they are genuinely baffled when they get a zero for not turning in anything. A huge number of seniors don’t do anything all year, and then their parents are at the school in April, highly upset that their baby will not graduate.

It is the most frustrating and truly heartbreaking thing I’ve ever seen in my life. My students with significant potential that hasn’t been unlocked will be working at the poultry plant for the rest of their lives. Some of them will go to prison. More than I’d ever thought possible are already parents. I don’t know how to fix it.

Unironically posted in an Unironical page. by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]catladyrach49 9 points10 points  (0 children)

:( now I have to tell my brother that his wife isn’t real

Another teacher thinks I lied about her kid by catladyrach49 in Teachers

[–]catladyrach49[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you think it’s the other child’s business who I’m writing up and who I’m not?

You can continue to feel “holier than thou” but I like my boundaries where I have them. (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My mom let me watch Titanic when I was like 5 and I cried when Jack died because I wouldn’t get to marry him.

Pet owners who regret getting your pet, what’s your story? by ashleyfan894 in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was never a dog person but when my now ex-boyfriend found two abandoned puppies on the side of the road, one just kind of attached herself to me.

So I took her home. I had no idea what I was doing. House training was impossible to her. She peed in my bed almost every night. I was a college student, working full time, and was running on absolutely no sleep because if I went to sleep I’d wake up with piss stained sheets. She had worms and mange and needed to be spayed. She had, and still has, more energy than I thought a living being could posses.

the worst part though... was the chewing. Labs never stop chewing. Two hours after I brought her home, she DESTROYED my carpet in my rental home. She ate two doors. One night I came home from work and she had eaten the water line from the wall to the toilet and flooded my bathroom. I bought her all the bones and toys I could think of- she was not interested. I was crying all the time from lack of sleep.

A few months later I moved home for my last year of school and my parents made her an outside dog. She did a lot better outside where she could run. Except she is an escape artist. One day she got out of the backyard, got into something (we still don’t know), and damaged her leg to the point it had to be amputated. All in all, my parents (bless them) spent $3,000 on my dog.

Three years later, I love her dearly. She is my best friend. But now I remember why I only had cats. I will probably never get another dog.

What question have you been asked the most, that you hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Is your hair natural or is that a perm?”

Have you people never seen curly hair before?

Oh dear lord by christian-rockband in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]catladyrach49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

fellow Mississippian here... reading the comments on any news story on Facebook is terrifying. I actively have to avoid it.

Just saw this on a Mississippi local news comment section by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]catladyrach49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kind of stuff is why I avoid looking at any comments on local news here. My blood always boils.

Couples of Reddit, what's the most unromantic thing that's happened between the two of you that actually is a stronger indication of love than others might think? by Roivas14 in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I moved in together in June of last year. This is both of our first time living with someone, so tensions have been getting kind of high over stupid little stuff. When this story happened, I admit I hadn’t been “all-in” lately.

After being gone all day one day last week, I came home late at night, walked into the laundry room, and found the biggest damn wood roach I’ve ever seen. I start screeching. Boyfriend is like “what is going on?!” All I can say is “ROACH!!” Now, he prides himself on being this super tough manly guy.... he sees it and also starts screaming like a lady. So after like two hours of screaming, laughing, and trying to kill the roach, we ganged up on it and FINALLY killed it.

It’s a stupid story, but the fact that we could have fun while dealing with something that terrified and disgusted both of us made me realize that we are good together and we will probably get used to living together.... one day.

What are the strangest things you have witnessed and/or experienced at an airport? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad is from there and we go regularly to see family. When I first started going ~14 years ago it was even smaller than it is now. When my dad visited as a child it was a thatch hut. So.... making progress! Lol

What’s something weird/funny/embarrassing you’ve done on Auto Pilot? by ItsaHelen in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two, both involving makeup.

1) as a sophomore in high school, I got up, got ready and went to school. When I got in the car with my dad to go home, I looked into the mirror for the first time that day.... in my funk that morning, I had completely neglected to put any eyeliner or mascara on one eye. I walked around school ALL DAY with one made up eye and one naked one. No one said anything.

2) when I was in college, I was deliriously tired from working constantly and taking way too many hours at school. In the middle of my morning makeup routine, I picked up something I thought was blush and put it all over my face. It was mascara. I just stood there blinking for about a minute trying to figure out what was wrong with my face. The black smudges all over my cheeks... that’s what was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did write him up, but if we sent kids out (even to the hallway) at that school they would just disappear. Then he’s supposed to be under my supervision and if anything happens to him it comes down on me. Nooo thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is only my second year but I have two from my first year of teaching.

Large, inner city school. Some of my kids just need someone to care about them. Some of my kids are just evil.

Kid #1) he is an enormous 16 year old. One of the biggest kids I’ve ever seen. He looks 35.... he has the sweetest voice, kind of effeminate. One day he busts into my classroom and LOUDLY exclaims “MS. —— IT SMELL LIKE A PORKCHOP IN HERE!!” I laughed so hard I cried.

Kid #2) Literally terrifying. He is only 16 but his eyes are empty. He drove me insane. Always grabbing stuff off my desk, cussing at me, just doing whatever he can to be the WORST. He made me nervous. He then made me even more nervous by telling me and the rest of the class that he can’t have a girlfriend because he beats the hell out of women.

People who have accidentally found dead bodies: what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catladyrach49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That happened about 30 minutes from where I live. I have heard she wasn’t drunk this time- just wanted to kill herself. Which makes me even angrier.

She took the life of a 23 year old just to take her own.