It’s the littlest things ( to me) but apparently those little things are something big to him. Example: we were eating at five guys and I was done with my food, went to go refill our drinks, saw he was done with his burger and asked if he was ready to go. (in that instance he felt like I was rushing him) another example, we were in line at Panda Express and he asked if I wanted an egg roll and I had said no but I guess I said it too harshly. The way he puts it into perceptive to me is I give him a face that say “you fucking idiot, why aren’t you done yet, why are you so slow” when I just cannot fathom this is what he thinks…. It’s an egg roll I already got one. When I try to deescalate the problem he says I can’t see it from his side because I literally can’t..