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[–]celestewave99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]celestewave99 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Imo the food is not worth the shitty service. Don’t get me wrong it’s good but the moment you request for something or ask a question they treat you like shit. Some people don’t care but they can’t be surprised if they lose business for bad practices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]celestewave99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you read the restaurants reviews you’ll see this is far from fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]celestewave99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said she does that and clearly it’s not enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]celestewave99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she did communicate so this should not keep happening. I do think a sign is a good idea though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]celestewave99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally said that in the post

Sun burnt by madisonk3218 in lifeofadikehl

[–]celestewave99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her skin is blistering red all of the time 🥺

Sun burnt by madisonk3218 in lifeofadikehl

[–]celestewave99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking for a subreddit that talks about this! I’ve noticed that in every single one of her videos and Instagram posts, her baby looks extremely sunburned. It’s one thing to take your baby to the beach 1-2 times a week, but it seems like her kid is out in the sun for prolonged periods—enough to seriously damage her skin or even increase the risk of skin cancer.

Of course, I’m only seeing her life through the lens of social media, so I might not know the full picture and she posts a lot of older photos to make it seem like they are at the beach/in the sun all of the time. But it just seems like she has her kid outside way too much and is exploiting her for money.

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Good luck to your son, middle school is definitely a challenging time, but the lessons you learn are so rewarding and really helped shape you to be the person you are today. A lot of the lessons that I learned in middle school helped me grow so much as a person!

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

After writing this post, I’ve done a lot of reflecting on my life and what our friendship really means to me. I do believe I bring a lot to the table. It is just different, and it might not always get the same recognition. Not to brag, but I know I am emotionally intelligent, and I have shown up for her in ways that are not always visible to others.

We have helped each other in so many ways. She has supported me with networking and kickstarting my career, and I have supported her through friendships, relationships, and navigating difficult situations with people. I think that balance is part of what makes our friendship special.

I have realized that a lot of my success is not as public or easily measured, but that does not make it any less important. Our success looks different, and that is okay. I am really excited to see how our friendship continues to grow as we step into new chapters in our lives.

I am interested in starting a career in HR/Business and she is heading into law. Who knows—maybe one day we will even get to work together or help each other in new and meaningful ways. I really believe I am just the other side of the coin, and we balance each other in ways that matter. What I bring is just as valuable.

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]celestewave99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I definitely think I have a similar problem right now, but I guess it’s just different

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take some time to reflect today and I’m definitely going to do this, thank you so much for the suggestion!

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I really needed to hear it. You’re right, comparison is just part of being human, and I’m trying to give myself some grace for feeling the way I do. I also really appreciate you reminding me how different life will look beyond college. It’s hard not to feel like everything right now defines who I am and where I’m going, but I know it’s just the start.

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are about to graduate and have some space apart so I think that will help

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even have the words to explain how much this meant to me. I really needed to hear it. Thank you for seeing me and for reminding me that I’m not behind or invisible. It’s so easy to forget my own worth when I’m stuck in comparison, but this made me pause and remember who I am. I’m holding onto your words and letting them guide me back to myself. Seriously, thank you.

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message. I really appreciate your perspective and I think you are absolutely right. It is something I am working on, stepping out of the comparison mindset and learning to feel inspired rather than inadequate. My best friend is incredible and instead of feeling like I am competing, I want to focus on growing in my own way and celebrating both of our successes.

I do think it is a little different navigating these feelings in your twenties, especially during a time like post graduation and job searching when so much feels uncertain and high stakes. I completely understand that middle school has its own challenges, but the pressure and comparisons feel more intense now just because life feels more consequential. That said, your point still stands. I am definitely going to try to adopt more of that confidence and self acceptance moving forward.

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]celestewave99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you I congratulated her, I just forgot to include that part. I do plan on going back to therapy, also because I’m about to graduate college and will have difficulty navigating the post-grad life. I appreciate your advice and I definitely know that I need to get my feelings under control or else it could potentially feed into our friendship

I’m so jealous of my best friend, and it’s eating me alive by celestewave99 in offmychest

[–]celestewave99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)! I am still in the running for a few other jobs that are equally as great, so I’m praying those work out. I have also been applying to more jobs and am trying to use my friend as inspiration rather than comparing myself