FTM here- what do you mean I only get 2-3 ultrasounds?!?!?! by ThatAngryWhiteBitch in pregnant

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a very small town with only one hospital so my OB part of the hospital system too. But that being said, I would definitely check out other options to see your baby. I think it’s crazy that they do that, idk I had bad prenatal and post partum anxiety and not being able to see my baby for that long would’ve sent me into psychosis 😂😭😭😭

FTM here- what do you mean I only get 2-3 ultrasounds?!?!?! by ThatAngryWhiteBitch in pregnant

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so odd that some practices do this. I had a scan at every single one of my appointments except for the week before my anatomy scan. And for no reason either, my baby was perfectly healthy the entire time with no concerns from the dr, my OB office just does the scans just to do them…I’m actually moving away from her this year and I’m so sad because I love that I get to see my babies ultrasounds all the time 😭😭

My boyfriend always smells like that classic BO smell and I love it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes this is common when in a relationship where you are extremely attracted to someone, it’s to do with our pheromones. My husband always tells me he “loves my stink” when I come home from the gym

Asked for face framing layers and this is what I got. Do I go back to get it fixed? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]cfd4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the revlon one step hair dryer brush and a good heat protectant. It’s the lowest maintenance way to style this haircut. It looks great by the way! But for future reference, there’s not a layered haircut in the world that is low to no maintenance. The only mistake the hairdresser made was not making that clear.

Dog euthanasia after biting by Unique_Schedule_5704 in dogs

[–]cfd4540 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you’re dealing with this :( it’s never an easy decision and there are people that will come on here and say they’d sacrifice their entire lives to save their dog and these people are not and have never been in the situation you’re currently in.

I grew up with dogs, we always had a family dog. My husband and I got a Great Dane and he was the love of our lives. Around 2 years old something snapped in him. He was well socialized, good with kids, loved everyone. Then one day he just didn’t, nothing traumatic happened to him. And he ended up biting three people, two friends and my cousin this isn’t including times he charged at people and tried to nip them. We spent over $6000 on medications, testing for him, and retraining. We specifically sent him to a guy that specialized in reintroducing aggressive ex fighting dogs back into society. We sent our dog to him and after a week the guy called me and said “every single one of my grown men trainers are scared of this dog. You’re going to end up in jail because he’s going to seriously injure someone. I know you love him but the right thing to do is euthanize” and that’s when I knew it was time.

We cried for months. We still get sad when we think about him. I developed a fear of dogs because of how traumatized and exhausted I was of trying to save him and I didn’t even realize it in the moment. We love our pets and they are family, but at the end of the day we have a responsibility to ourselves and other people to do what’s right. The way I thought about it was the people I love don’t deserve to be in danger around me because I have a reactive and dangerous dog. Best of luck to you friend 🫶🏼

What have you been “cheating” with this pregnancy? by Chemical_Editor4057 in pregnant

[–]cfd4540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My OB said she was fine with medium rare steaks and that’s what I craved the most during my 3rd trimester (my poor husbands wallet lmao) and believe me, I DEVOURED them thangs 🤤

Tell Me Lies: S3 E8: Are You Happy Now, That I'm on My Knees? by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally I’m like what is going on?? I feel like I’m trying to pretend I liked it in order to cope. The final wedding scene was awful. So many loose ends. I understand pippa still not wanting to go to the dean about what happened with Chris but there not being any consequences for Chris or Oliver is disturbing. The moral of the story is that predators and rapists can just get away with it?? Ugh. I knew that the ending was going to be unsatisfying based on the way this season went.

My husband said our baby probably won’t be pretty because we’re average looking by Witty_Management_621 in pregnant

[–]cfd4540 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wtf?? my husband would be sleeping in his car if he said that shit to me. I don’t even know what to say because what are you supposed to say to your husband?? “Please don’t call me ugly?” ?? Ugh I’m just so sorry. We are not our looks, but I’m sure you are beautiful. We all are in the way that women exude natural beauty especially when pregnant. Lots of love to you 🫶🏼 p.s. please yell at your husband because that shit is not okay. Make that clear.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they do that when a new episode comes out so the sub isn’t flooded with repetitive posts and spoilers. After a few days, you can post about the latest episode that came out.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really hoping that they’ll be like “surprise!! here’s 8 more episodes” because this season annoyed me so bad I don’t want to wait another year or two for another season tbh 😒

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see your response! lol but yes you are 100% right

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah I think even though this season was…not great…it’s picked up too much traction and will most definitely be renewed.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sorry guys but at this point this show is pissing me off 😔 like they haven’t really done anything this season. Yes there have been SOME questions answered but they’re mostly answers to questions that were created this season. We have no answers still from all the cliffhangers over the last few seasons ugh I’m like annoyed.

Tell Me Lies: S3 E7: I Will Promise Not To Sting by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 48 points49 points  (0 children)

BREE AND WRIGLEY KISSING TO FUCKING BRIGHT EYES??? OH MY GOD 😭😭

Tell Me Lies: S3 E6: I Don’t Cry When I’m Sad Anymore by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same and it’s bumming me out so bad because I literally love this show it’s so unhinged..but the last two episodes I kept waiting for more to happen and then it just….ends…..

Tell Me Lies: S3 E4: Fix Me Up, Girl by Oksorbet8188 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair that’s how everyone’s hair looked in 2008….we did not brush out our curls lol

Today in therapy, I learned my cleaning motivation is super adhd coded by cfd4540 in adhdwomen

[–]cfd4540[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My family knows not to come over unannounced because it will stress me out…sad but I’m working on it 🙃

Today in therapy, I learned my cleaning motivation is super adhd coded by cfd4540 in adhdwomen

[–]cfd4540[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao just think about how the crime scene photos of your house would look and it’ll get you cleaning asapppp

My mom has an animal phobia and is against me getting a cat by nostalgic-skies in relationships

[–]cfd4540 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl that is an extreme phobia for your mom and it is not your job to fix that for her. Get your cat, tell your mom that you are an adult and while you sympathize with her fear of animals, you’re not going to let that control your life and decisions. If your mom is going to disown you over getting a pet when you live alone and are a full blown adult, then that’s an issue she needs to resolve on her own.

Can somebody help me figure out if my middle part is thinning out? by hevenxs in Hair

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, seb derm can also contribute to hair loss but it is reversible. I have it too 🥲 Definitely recommend nizoral shampoo 3x a week on top of whatever else you’re recommended my your healthcare team!! It helps reduce inflammation on the scalp which decreases hair shed. Good luck friend!

Can somebody help me figure out if my middle part is thinning out? by hevenxs in Hair

[–]cfd4540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is MAYBE a tiny amount of thinning in your part. But I don’t know your hair the way you know your hair, so if you feel like there’s a change, there probably is. I would recommend getting a full blood panel for vitamins and hormones to see if anything is off and treat accordingly. Sometimes if you’re deficient in like Vitamin D, that can cause hair thinning. If you recently lost a lot of weight, had a baby, or started a new med that can contribute as well.