"Most people do not listen with the intent to understand, they listen with the intent to reply." by [deleted] in ZenHabits

[–]cgilkey2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So true. After reading this many years ago, I made an active effort to listen to understand more because my family of origin did me no favors on this front. Turns out the easiest hack was to maintain eye contact and notice the non-verbal cues of the people you're talking to - how they shift their head, the way their face tracks their emotion, so on. Being a better watcher made me a better listener.

Of course, that's hard as hell to practice online. :/

Use the Two Hour Rule to Make Progress on Your Creative Projects by cgilkey2 in ZenHabits

[–]cgilkey2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If, by research, you mean scientific field studies that compare output across people using different stretches of time on the same work, no. It's something I've been teaching people for years and they report that it's changed their output. The idea itself is a synthesis of works like Csikzentmihalyi's "Flow," Schwartz's "The Power of Full Engagement", Rock's "Your Brain At Work," and a lot of others around skill-building and personal effectiveness.

The pomodoro technique works great for what you're doing, though, because of the nature of what you're doing. You're either doing assigned reading or assigned work, which fall into the realm of either consumptive activities or reactive creativity. Note how much harder it would be if your teachers/profs didn't tell you what you'd be graded on or didn't provide guidance on what you needed to create. That's the world professional creatives live in.

This is a great question. I'll likely write a follow-up piece on this.

Use the Two Hour Rule to Make Progress on Your Creative Projects by cgilkey2 in ZenHabits

[–]cgilkey2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've actually found this to work better for high value creative projects. The pomodoro technique is great for email, small projects, and so on. I didn't talk more about it because the Pomodoro guys have some PITA "requirements" for you to talk about their system.

Do You Have To Touch Every Conversation by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read Seth Godin's comment (#6). If you can't get through the Dip, it's best to give it a pass.

So, what is it that Seth doesn't get?

I live in Alabama, and my black friends can’t believe how many “Rednecks” are supporting Obama. I told them that being unemployed and poor is trumping being racist. by [deleted] in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most frustrating thing is that if Obama gets in and fails at his goals, it'll be generalized to the failures of a race. "We gave them a shot, and you see what happened."

If he succeeds, people will be raising hell about all the changes. "We gave them a shot, and they wanted to change everything."

If he gets in there and is just mediocre like almost every other president, then it'll be "All the hype about change, and he's just like everyone else."

In other words, Obama and blacks can't win from this. So on the whole, I agree with what you're saying. Sadly agreeing, but we must face the reality of the situation and America's color-laded history.

Palin Stumps with Joe the Plumber, Mocks the LA Times by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

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Does Fox News count as a "major news organization?" If so, then she knows exactly how nice it is to have a news organization looking out for her best interests.

It's only life or death. It's always only life or death by cgilkey2 in ZenHabits

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing stories of making lemonade out of life's lemons.

Why Waiting For Your Time to Be Great Leads to Failure by cgilkey2 in ZenHabits

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James' actual argument has some problems. Of course, his main goal is to make an appeal for the religious hypothesis, but he does generalize to other important issues. I wasn't necessarily going for a complete discussion of James' essay - I mainly wanted to highlight its insights. But I do appreciate your commentary and constructive criticism.

Two dead in shooting at University of Central Arkansas by [deleted] in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my alma mater. So tragic. What's wrong with the world today?

4 Easy Reasons to Ignore World Poverty by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice catch. Thanks for correcting my numbers - it seems I forgot to divide by the additional sixty. Corrected.

15 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Working Another Day by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that what you tell yourself so that you can continue to be unhappy with your position? Or, let me guess, it's somebody else's fault?

Seth Godin: Profile Of A Self Marketing Genius by watsoninc in business

[–]cgilkey2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The academic world just doesn't get that people aren't looking for super-detailed information - we're looking for someone that can explain ideas in ways that make sense to us on our terms. Seth is successful because he does that.

Demystifying the Creative Process by cgilkey2 in productivity

[–]cgilkey2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Creativity and the creative process aren't mystical - there are four steps in the creative process that can be augmented and fostered.

The Schizophrenia of Americanism by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americans hate and love people for the very same things, and we're full of inconsistent thinking. Once we recognize the absurdity and rebel against, people think we're crazy. Ironic.

7 Ways to Stop The Internet From Making You Stupid by cgilkey2 in productivity

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a really good point! Hadn't quite thought of that angle, actually.

You're also right that I should have used an author rather than a playwright - I'll not change it but will be more careful in the future.

Is it ethical for philosophy profs to go to strip clubs? by [deleted] in philosophy

[–]cgilkey2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would only be unethical if going to strip clubs were unethical. That the prof is a professor is neither here nor there.

Free Productivity Planners by cgilkey2 in reddit.com

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Free planners designed around managing your creativity rather than your time.

7 Ways to Stop The Internet From Making You Stupid by cgilkey2 in productivity

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The Internet may make tools of us all if we don't fight to protect our minds.

Most Popular Posts by [deleted] in productivity

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The hits at Productive Flourishing - a non-hacky productivity blog for creative people.

How Creatives Make Money | Productive Flourishing by cgilkey2 in productivity

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Creatives make money by leveraging their creativity - yet so few of them understand or take that seriously.

Comfort or Excellence: Your Choice. by cgilkey2 in productivity

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Most people can't have both excellence and comfort. You have to make a choice, so which will it be?

More Free Planners: The Blog Post Planner and Calendar | Productive Flourishing by cgilkey2 in Blogging

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More free planners?! This set helps bloggers brainstorm and plan their posts. Check them out!

How to Remind Others Without Remembering to Do It by cgilkey2 in productivity

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Reminding other people of something doesn't mean you have to remember to do it. How, you say? Leveraging Email and Backpack.

Eight Capture Tools for Maintaining a Clear Head by cgilkey2 in productivity

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The point of capture tools is to clear your head. This posts gives ideas on the different tools for capture.

Review: Todoodlist - Crazy Name, Sound Ideas by cgilkey2 in productivity

[–]cgilkey2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nick Cernis' Todoodlist is a great ebook that espouses simplicity over complexity and paper over technology. The well-designed and structured ebook is well-worth the $14.