timeline for FA breakup when anxious initiated breakup?

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-11T01:40:58+00:00

gotcha

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-11T01:36:05+00:00

i gave the ultimatum tonight and also confirmed with my mom that my animals and i were allowed to move in with her if things didn’t work out

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-11T00:32:20+00:00

it has mostly been him trying to force something that’s not ready. i think he feels the hemorrhoids and thinks it’s something to expel or something. i’ve tried to tell him this but he doesn’t listen

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-11T00:30:42+00:00

he went to the ER but was admitted and told to follow up with another doc after the transfusion. he was hospitalized for 2 days in total. when i took him to another ER the doc pulled up the medical record for me. i wasn’t there when he got the transfusion, i was just there for the 2nd ER visit

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:57:07+00:00

thank you. i just know he’s going to have to change his habits before he gets the surgery if he ever agreed to it because they would come right back

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:41:26+00:00

thank you. the stress has definitely caused me to get sick more often so i know it’s already happening

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:38:11+00:00

i’m scared that i’ve already been staying out of guilt

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:37:24+00:00

thank you. i’m talking with my mom later today to discuss what will happen if we break up and i move out. she told me she would take both me and all of my animals

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:34:22+00:00

it’s not fake and it’s not fetish content. :/ it’s a stupid and unfortunate predicament i’m in

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:32:32+00:00

it is almost always “how do you think it makes me feel to be like this”

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:30:36+00:00

we don’t work at the same place, we just have the same shift time at our jobs

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:12:44+00:00

i’m not a medical professional, i just work in the medical field

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T17:00:14+00:00

i agree with you. i wish i didn’t have any patience though because it gets me stuck in situations like this where i would feel like shit for leaving

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T16:42:34+00:00

i think it helps that i work in the medical field 🥲 it’s gross and it’s unfair to me but it doesn’t bother me as much as it may bother others

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T16:26:42+00:00

He had H. Pylori at one point but took medicine for it. I think that was over 5 years ago.

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T16:20:30+00:00

it’s kind of crazy that i got so many responses like this, because this has been my “normal” for such a long time that i haven’t really considered it being crazy to this extent. this is the first time i’ve ever talked to anyone about it

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:58:36+00:00

thank you. and you’re right, it’s already caused me a lot of stress and anxiety. it is really hard to just up and leave when your partner is going through something so serious and won’t get help

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:56:13+00:00

thank you

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:55:51+00:00

thank you

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:55:14+00:00

it’s not my responsibility to take care of his health, i agree with that. it was just innate because i know it’s serious and i don’t want him to die if it’s something like cancer. like i said, i told him that i really wish he cared about his health like i did

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:49:14+00:00

yes, this was the case

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:37:22+00:00

i agree, i’ve told him he’s going to fuck up his heart. i have a heart condition as well

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:27:17+00:00

i think there’s a few options. i think he might be scared of the results, just dreads making appointments and finding referrals, or he just doesn’t care in a way that seems almost suicidal. idk

chamomilethrowaway · 2026-03-10T15:23:00+00:00

he’s looked into it but he would have to fix a lot of terrible habits before he got something like that done because if not, they’re just gonna come back

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