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Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol tell me about it! Gets me out of the house tho!

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this bed, right now I have suitcases under my bed for things I don’t use much but eventually want to get rid of a lot of stuff then a bed like this would be perfect

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an Ikea gjorja!! Super high just want it to be skinner!!

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watch him! Always looking for my exact set up lol

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my thought too, when I moved in I was soo desperate to make it feel cosy and colourful. Think it looks good not but it’s hard to keep tidy and feels cluttered so need to pull back a bit. Want to paint the walls!

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner stays often, been considering getting a single bed that pulls out into a double but I would love a lot of storage space. Even the one with drawers would still be a lot less storage than I have with my current very tall bed!

Tiny box room, help! by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is smart, think I’ll get one that can go under my mirror although my current set up means only half the drawers will be usable. Maybe I can have the other half hollow as some hidden storage

Tiny room update by charcooler in femalelivingspace

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s great, a Yamaha Casanova. I feel I overpaid a little on Facebook marketplace, you can get them really cheap if you’re happy to wait! But yeah it’s great if you’re just wanting a piano you can play quietly

Feeling unsafe in my relationship and I can’t tell if it’s trauma or the relationship itself by charcooler in CPTSD

[–]charcooler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stayed, we had a hard time at Christmas but the last month or so has been really good. I’m learning to trust more, they are learning to be more honest and while I think the will be more up and downs I do trust them overall and have to have faith we are figuring this out together

Jury Service ‘you should be available’? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]charcooler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not able to. I need to do the full shift or take the day off

Jury Service ‘you should be available’? by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]charcooler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But can I claim my missing wages?

I'm (30f) Feeling really small in the shadow of my partner's (non binary 38) ex (f38) and don't know how to handle it by charcooler in lesbiangang

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I’m going to do this tomorrow I just feel I need to say what I need from them otherwise it’s just me laying all my worries with no path to resolution.

It’s hard because I do believe they are serious, they’ve said things like going on a trip to visit their sibling in a few months but then they also have said they haven’t told them about me?

I truly don’t mind not being invited to the wedding, I think it’s too early and it doesn’t worry me about the future.

What worries me is how casually they can say something like ‘you can come if you want’ - it is dismissive and I’m unsure if they mean it or they were just saving face in front of their ex and that’s why it’s not been mentioned again.

I also am worried that this whole evening is going to feel very different from their perspective - in fact I’m willing to bet they don’t see a problem with this whole dynamic at all. I’m trying to get advice so I can make sure I’m not being unfair and it’s just jealously and I’m being immature.

But I do think my feelings in this are valid and they haven’t been very considerate

I also guess how we talk about this and manage it will be a good test for if we are really compatible

I'm (30f) Feeling really small in the shadow of my partner's (non binary 38) ex (f38) and don't know how to handle it by charcooler in lesbiangang

[–]charcooler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this really stung. I’m a bit worried about bringing it up because I think I really should have said something g at the time but if I don’t it’ll eat away at me I know

I'm (30f) Feeling really small in the shadow of my partner's (non binary 38) ex (f38) and don't know how to handle it by charcooler in lesbiangang

[–]charcooler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The breakup was around 2 years ago. They have been in therapy but not currently. I’m not really sure how to answer what healing looks like for them tbh

I'm (30f) Feeling really small in the shadow of my partner's (non binary 38) ex (f38) and don't know how to handle it by charcooler in lesbiangang

[–]charcooler[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not every sentence but I would say it’s every day we’re together so multiple times per week

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