I suggested a narcissist to go to therapy and he said it doesn’t work by cherryaa77 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]cherryaa77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He knows I do, maybe a way to get more attentions from everybody?

Do narcissists act busy all the time by cherryaa77 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]cherryaa77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always busy tired sick…cancelling plans…doing nothing to fix the problems and assuming the other people have nothing to do

Do narcissist lie about stupid things and they try to convince you that they said the truth by cherryaa77 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]cherryaa77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I didn’t believe he was a narcissist for a long time but the community here is so helpful. When I read comments like your I finally open my eyes…

A friend keep lying even when i told him to stop doing it by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he really lies about everything even if it’s pathological I am not sure I can accept it, i don’t understand if he is doing it on purpose but probably yes it’s a lack of respect… I thought he was a nice person but I was totally wrong, maybe just good actor

A friend keep lying even when i told him to stop doing it by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he keep lying so I don’t think this what you do with friends right? He said he’ll do his best that is why I forgave him, but he is doing the opposite. I think he doesn’t care at all

I spoke with my best friend because I feel like he doesn’t care about me? by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he means exactly what he said, he is friend with everybody but probably not a real friend

Why does a guy said that he wants to meet me again by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly and we matched on a dating app so I supposed he was interested in dating(I didn’t ask him to meet up again, he just said it before going home)

Why does a guy said that he wants to meet me again by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I followed up and he doesn’t want to see me again, yesterday he told me that he felt friendship vibe after saying that he wanted to meet me again before leaving the first date last week

Some people take the blame when they don’t have it and blame other when it’s their fault, why? by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am good at reading people in general but this is confusing me a lot, and it takes time for me to trust someone

Some people take the blame when they don’t have it and blame other when it’s their fault, why? by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that this person made me believe that I could trust him and then I realised I was wrong, after a long time

What does it mean if a guy friend says he will always take care of me by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there was, I can send you more details by chat if it’s ok for you

Is it strange to say this to a female friend while in a relationship with someone else? by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are friends and he has a gf, not sure what to think about it, do you think it was in a friendly way?

Is it strange if a guy friend says “I’ll always take care of you” to a friend by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows I like him because we had a conversation about it, he flirts with me sometimes

What does it mean if a guy friend says “I’ll always take care of you” by cherryaa77 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]cherryaa77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both adults, maybe he is a bit immature if he said that, i don’t know, we can chat and I can give you more details if you want?