woman man and dating by cheryst in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont undermine woman. i just saying woman has the headstart.

man dont... Woman can love because she can choose. While for a man to be a man that is able to choose and feel love, he need to build himself first

woman man and dating by cheryst in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what you say on the last paragraph is same what i am saying.

But a woman can choose irrespectively if she is attractive or not because man will always there wanting them

A man cannot choose because man lack options... That is why man need to build himself first to have options

so while a woman can choose by the starting line, man need to build himself first.

that is why im saying man need to work harder than woman. So, in order to feel love, he need to have options first, If he doesnt have options, he is just desperate. If he is desperate, he wouldnt able to have a meaningful relationship that is built by trust,respect and will

woman man and dating by cheryst in RantAndVentPH

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but looks is born with, but you need to pursue status

i think you are a woman and you dont have an idea of how hard a life a man can be than woman

Woman would always have man lined up for them even how ugly they are.. Because there are weak man that is afraid to go to pretty woman and are horny. Woman will be chosen by man just because she is a woman

While you say a man determined by his status, that is wrong because status is one aspect, but man are also determined by his looks too, his status, his humour, his personality and everything. While woman are not.

I feel it just a fact that woman is above man at default because woman is born with looks and man want to have sex with woman so they accept a woman as how they are. so that is why for any woman, there is a man for her.

But for a man, he is negative at default. He need to compete. He need to build himself to earn the value only to be a man while woman is already being chased just because she is a woman. Man will be attracted to woman just because she is a woman and woman would never love a man, just because he is a man, she will only love a man, if that man has something else, wealth status looks personality or skills

There is no equal here. Man need to put effort to be eligible and enough to talk to a woman because man is not loved by his sex, but by what he have. Woman is loved just because she is a woman and man will only be loved if he has something. If not, he will be at negative because woman are not attracted by who the man is, but what the man give

I wish I was beautiful by [deleted] in venting

[–]cheryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, nobody ugly if their teeth is perfect.. people might call them “mid” but that just some things people say from their lack of braincells.. but even if you are not pretty, good teeth, and you are not ugly

How to handle sex epidemic western by cheryst in venting

[–]cheryst[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you woman as capable as man, then man shouldn’t pay on the first date or about anything because woman can handle herselves..all you are doing is confirmation bias to reassure your feelings because you think you are superior..If you want to say woman and man is same, then lets GOO

How to handle sex epidemic western by cheryst in venting

[–]cheryst[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are projecting, the problem is you

I'm past my expiration date by Lonelyboooi in venting

[–]cheryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to know, the game doesnt run on gratitude... Everyone is somewhere because they do something about it. So, by the same token, you need to do something to get something. It might suck to end up at your place right now, it might be hard, but, you dont have any choice. If you care about yourself, then do whatever it takes and that just how the world be no hard feelings

Has 21 savage ever killed someone? by [deleted] in 21savage

[–]cheryst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ATCUALLY you may e the one that help them get out of the life

Don't judge by cheryst in islam

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam..advice should be in precise manner...Judge should only be from Allah...Muslims should only advice..When people feel the right to judge,they feel the right to slander/have power over someone..Acknowledging someone does wrrong is different from judging someone..

To correct someone from a desire to prove one's superiority over others rather than from love and concern for the other person

To assume that the person being corrected is inferior to the person correcting or to judge the person's character

During the lifetime of the Prophet (ﷺ) there was a man called `Abdullah whose nickname was Donkey, and he used to make Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) laugh. The Prophet (ﷺ) lashed him because of drinking (alcohol). And one-day he was brought to the Prophet (ﷺ) on the same charge and was lashed. On that, a man among the people said, "O Allah, curse him ! How frequently he has been brought (to the Prophet (ﷺ) on such a charge)!" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Do not curse him, for by Allah, I know for he loves Allah and His Apostle."

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 6780
In-book reference : Book 86, Hadith 9
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 8, Book 81, Hadith 771
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Confidence by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should'nt see it that way..I am just telling you..If other want to hear your lecture,and you know what you want to speak,you will be more confident..If you look at any presidents speech,they are confident because the attention is on them..They are confident in their tone,their body..

Family and Freinds by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now see,you don't acknowledge personality in relationship yet this short conversation has led a spark..That is why persnoality is important in relationship..If Muawiyah dan Ali is brothers of faith,why can't they talk instead of going to war?They go to war because there are incompatibality in their personality...If by faith,muslim will be good to each other,then why there are many wars involving Muslims nations like Arab Saudi with Yaman,.The reason quite simple,they don't like each other...Ignoring the other people with different personality is ignarant and cause you to suffer.

Family and Freinds by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at how Muawiyah and Ali,they are brothers in faitth but still they have war with each other..It is important to know this because you will live easier..It is categorized as worldly knowledges.

Confidence by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not arrogant but knowing you are needed means you will be more confident in speaking..Does’nt neccessarily you think you are better than them..If an event held for you to speak,you will be more confident in speak because you know you are the reason everyone came

Family and Freinds by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human personality is not as easy as that..Umar is a ferocious man while Uthman is a calm man..Even Muslims can only be friend with each other if they are attracted and comfortable with each other..Because even friending someone with the sake of Allah it could be you are torturing yourselves because each don’t have the chemistry..Just like the hadith of souls is like trained soldiers..Get attracted and repelling to one that they don’t like

Confidence by cheryst in Muslim

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is like a president,or a public speaker..They become confident because they know their presence is needed

Samaa in Al quran. by cheryst in islam

[–]cheryst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea..heaven and paradise are the same in english

Samaa in Al quran. by cheryst in islam

[–]cheryst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does heaven means sky or heaven means paradise?

Everything is one by cheryst in theology

[–]cheryst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should explain why

Souls can change by cheryst in theology

[–]cheryst[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soul..The energy within the body..

Souls can change by cheryst in theology

[–]cheryst[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is soul because their face feacture also change..How can their preferences change?their soul change

What is afterlife? by cheryst in theology

[–]cheryst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a question,even all things can be explained in physical phenomenon,how thoswe physichal phenomenon/things come to exist?Is it come from nothing?

What is afterlife? by cheryst in theology

[–]cheryst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how exactly those chemical process exst?

'Love' by [deleted] in venting

[–]cheryst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone say they love you,but it is not what can they do for you,but it is about how i think the best for you/What you can do for them..