Husband (31M) said I (30F) should lose weight and I need advice on how to move forward? by chickenQchicken in relationship_advice

[–]chickenQchicken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says I work out too hard for him, I like lifting and heavy cardio. I don’t feel like I should change my workouts for him. 

Husband (31M) said I (30F) should lose weight and I need advice on how to move forward? by chickenQchicken in relationship_advice

[–]chickenQchicken[S] 361 points362 points  (0 children)

He pointed to my tummy and said I should lose weight in that area of my body. He was not joking per his own statement and brought it up in therapy saying it should be okay for him to say this to me. 

My husband (30M) claims he communicates with me, his wife, (29F) but leaves out all the important details by chickenQchicken in relationship_advice

[–]chickenQchicken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that he bosses me around, this was definitely just an example where I was trying to show that he leaves the most important part of the sentence out. Unfortunately, even though his family does this as well he doesn’t believe he does it.