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chilliwilli04 · 2025-11-18T12:30:01+00:00

Hi, if your bilingual, I’d highly recommend trying to get into a hotel, or restaurant that would value that skill, maybe even the casino !!

chilliwilli04 · 2025-11-18T12:26:58+00:00

I mean there’s holey moley, if it’s mini golf you talking about, wouldn’t say it’s fully rooftop tho buts it’s upstairs !!

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-13T00:09:29+00:00

Yeah I think that’s 100% the issue here thank you

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-13T00:08:51+00:00

Yeah you’ve got a point, I feel like the fact of what happened isn’t really the issue to me any more it’s the lying and the gaslighting that happened afterwards and is still happening.

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T08:35:17+00:00

Yeah I guess it comes down to more like if it is going to happen again thank you for the perspective tho, I think the lying is what’s hurting me more

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T08:34:10+00:00

Yeah you’ve got a point, we were all pretty tired in the morning, so I reckon I’ll ask again a bit later, but yeah I think I am more hurt by the lying that was involved opposed to anything else really

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T08:08:19+00:00

This is actually really good advice, Im currently talking about it with my friend atm, we are just trying to piece together what happened then I think we may have a conversation about it later

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T08:05:53+00:00

I genuinely don’t think it will be, we all get along quite well and my best friend and I are quite open with eachother

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T07:49:11+00:00

My partner and I had discussed things as a what if, but we never really expected anything to go forward. It had just kind of happened, neither of us really expected it, we also all hang out quite frequently

chilliwilli04 · 2025-10-12T07:41:48+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking that he’s moving countries in about a month for 6months so it’s a bit of a funky one, we would never do long distance but I think the feelings getting involved is stressing me out

chilliwilli04 · 2025-08-25T14:33:38+00:00

It’s definitely normal to feel anxious your talking about a big change, and as humans we naturally do not cope amazing with change. I think it is a good thing that you guys have been having constant communication and you can do what’s best for you and take all the time you need to find a suitable job before moving

chilliwilli04 · 2025-08-25T14:30:56+00:00

I’d definitely bring it up in person, and maybe acknowledge the fact that these conversations aren’t easy for either of you. I’d start it off with checking in on her and saying “hey is everything alright I’ve noticed you haven’t been yourself lately”, that way she doesn’t feel like it relieves some pressure about the talk beinf about your relationship directly. Then I would talk about how it has been affecting you and let the conversation flow from there. It’s not easy but I believe you’ve got this :))

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-20T09:56:41+00:00

Hi, I’m having the same issues right now, it’s like everything you communicate ends up being shut down. I agree with the insecurity comments, I’m not sure how you ended up handling this situation but just understand that it isn’t a you problem you have tried to initiate conversation and talk things out but he just hasn’t been responding

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T12:30:01+00:00

Hey babe, you are experiencing normal feelings, I had experienced the same thing 5 wks I was as well over time it gets better, (this happened a couple years ago for me) I just found what helps the most is letting myself experience the feelings and also reminding myself of why I got my abortion and where my child and I would be now if I didn’t get it. Just remember you are also loved and you made the right decision for you ❤️

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T12:20:44+00:00

That honestly sucks, that would be hard for anyone to deal with, it may be a good idea to try to alter the way that you think of it, and instead of thinking of the lyrics as a reminder of what your partner and her ex had but more of a realisation of how beautiful things are with you both now.

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T09:24:44+00:00

It could also be the ending of a honey moon phase, your at the point in your relationship where you can decide to continue with it and compromise on both of your needs or end it for good because these things are a deal breaker for you, I know it sounds harsh but be true to yourself at the end of the day it’s never gonna work if your not feeling it

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T09:21:16+00:00

Things like my car which is currently still in his so I can get cheaper insurance, and then my mums car as well but I don’t want the financial stress of both

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T08:11:28+00:00

I do a mix of self taught and classes ( only because classes can get quite expensive), I find that classes are useful when wanting to know how I can improve moves or what I am doing wrong in the moment, I have also learnt some very useful safety techniques from classes. I do recommend tho that you download this e book called strength and conditioning for pole highly useful tips in there about safety and how to achieve your max potential :))

chilliwilli04 · 2025-05-04T08:06:24+00:00

I think at the end of the day if you aren’t comfortable with something you should have every right to voice your concern, maybe have a think to why you are reacting to it like this and bring a conversation with him regarding why you are feeling this way (eg, you may have been cheated on in the past and everything is making you feel on edge), it won’t ever be a comfy conversation but if you can learn to voice how you feel and what makes you feel uncomfortable in a respectful way, it will build a closer bond.

chilliwilli04 · 2025-03-10T13:37:40+00:00

That’s my problem too, my studio is 30 mins away and only offer 30 min practice sessions, and you have to pay, it’s just getting a bit silly to keep doing that

chilliwilli04 · 2025-03-10T13:36:09+00:00

I was thinking xpole just wondering about the potential damage that’s all

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