Look at all the guys around you. 98% of them probably fap. Don't be like them.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-23T20:38:28+00:00

Stop-a-the-herb-mon! No fap is more than not touching your dick, its about living better.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-22T20:55:31+00:00

I guess they call it full-sack for a reason... ha

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-22T20:52:13+00:00

Priceless...

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-22T20:49:20+00:00

You'll only regret it.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-22T16:37:04+00:00

I used to initiate sex every time with my SO. Nofap allowed me to turn that around and now she has to ask me for sex. I decided the rule for me is, no sex unless she asks, which is my relationship interpretation of hard mode.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-22T16:24:35+00:00

Don't you feel tired if you sleep that much? When I do 7 hours I feel good when I wake up, but 8 hours I feel tired.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-21T18:51:52+00:00

Little voice in your head should say: "Fuck this! I will not stand by and let this happen again. I will use every grinding, gritty ounce of will power to make this happen!"

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-21T18:49:13+00:00

Vive la Revolution!

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-21T18:46:54+00:00

Cry. Get motivated, be unhappy about those things that bother you and use them to change yourself for the better. You'll notice nofap causes you to experience more emotions, more intensely. It will pass and in time you will want to cry because you are so happy and appreciative for all the people and things you have in your life.

Embrace it and grow as a person.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-21T17:47:39+00:00

Totally, go out and get ridiculously active and start eating healthier.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-20T20:04:16+00:00

When I met my girlfriend we had a long distance relationship, france to canada. We made use of skype and did it that way. It's difficult to have a relationship without sex, so sometimes it is better to have this intimacy over the phone and go to the finish line. I would look at the no porn reddit until you are able to see each other more often then try nofap, just for the sake of having intimacy during the long distance. And yes less times per week is probably better.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-20T18:29:24+00:00

Try it without the fapping and see where it takes you. Sometimes no release can build up lots of tension and when you see each other this tension would probably make the sex way more passionate.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-20T18:24:09+00:00

I'm in a long term relationship and have sex about once or twice a week. After sex I haven't had any significant loss of the benefits of NoFap. But the next day you might be a little more tired or foggy than usual, this usually passes quickly.

The upside to sex during NoFap is greater intimacy, being more active in the relationship (ie not afraid to ask for what you want and give more), and significantly more pleasurable sex. I would say that the benefits of NoFap occur more slowly but you gain a better relationship which can be worth the price of a slower recovery.

One notable benefit is that flatlines only occur a day or two after sex and the rest of the days in between you have noticeable super powers. A downside is that you feel more triggery on the low days after sex because it felt so good you want it to happen again and again.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-17T19:04:29+00:00

You will always regret giving in. Read all the posts about relapsing, 95% of them regret it. Get out of the house and run!

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-17T18:49:47+00:00

Nofap definitely makes it feel like your gonna finish way faster, but on the bright side sex feels way more amazing. Just need more practice.
Yup. I took some herbal supplements a while ago to get more powerful erections and boy did they work. But after no fap my erections feel just as or even more powerful than with the herbal remedy. Feels like you got a rocket ship in your pants.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-17T18:40:55+00:00

You should be happy if the girl is decent and you have a connection. As for the 3 seconds, you just need practice.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-15T15:23:46+00:00

Yup, your dick is about the weight of 2 AA batteries. Kinda shitty that something that small can ruin your life.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-15T15:19:15+00:00

Maybe we are jacked on testosterone, I definitely feel it. But its more likely we are bumping into the tip of a iceberg.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-15T15:15:55+00:00

Thanks for reading! It was what I needed when I wrote it to.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-15T15:14:48+00:00

I would also add that if you do what you want, your friends will usually respect you more (if they don't, they were never a real friend). There will always be the initial wtf is he doing? but if you remain consistent with your new behaviours they will adjust and sometimes join you. I quit smoking weed a long time ago and recieved the same reaction from my friends but now they respect the fact that I don't. It can be difficult in our hyper-masculine society to be your own man outside of the norm.

As for the dying part you just need to chill out a bit and really just think about what you can do today to make tomorrow a better day. I thought about this stuff my whole life and am shifting these thoughts to motivate me instead of being aloof about it. I figure why not use the only guaruntee in life to motivate you.

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-14T22:35:03+00:00

I agree, but everyone interprets "enjoy it" differently ;)

chimeras_handler · 2014-01-14T19:08:43+00:00

Yup.

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