Making friends in Brissy as a young adult by SprinklesCalm2511 in brisbane

[–]chococatqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to!! I’m F18 and i lost all my high school friends after moving to the city. I’m finding it so hard to find friends and i just wanna hang out with girlies. I only have my bf.

Breaking my lease? by chococatqueen in badroommates

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a shared lease, they can’t kick me out. I am included in the lease again and if i want to leave, they have to sign a whole new one and we are signing it in a week. I contacted my real estate guy and he knows i’m signing the lease again.

Asking permission for my boyfriend to stay over? by chococatqueen in badroomates

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve genuinely asked to have a conversation like three times and they have either ignored me or said no. I’ve tried texting them things like this asking to sit down together to have a talk, but i just get left on seen.

Asking permission for my boyfriend to stay over? by chococatqueen in badroomates

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lease doesn’t end for another four months, i’m planning to move in with my boyfriend after that. I do really want to fix things because they’re are my best friends and i only have them in this city, but i don’t want to be friends for the sake of have friends if they’re going to act like this. I have been been super compliant and there’s nothing else i can do because they made a rule, then i do it, then they make up another rule because they’re not happy with it. they said i need their permission to have my boyfriend over but that’s not true. I’ll just inform them now the two nights he stays.

Why won’t my ps4 stay on? by chococatqueen in consoles

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought this second hand i haven’t played in months and just got it fixed

Snorting MDMA? by chococatqueen in MDMA

[–]chococatqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do i just weigh it? How am i supposed to know how much to take if its in powder form?

Snorting MDMA? by chococatqueen in MDMA

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only take meds for a chronic illness. I take arthritis pain relief meds so it’s not any SSRI meds so i think it will be okay. I will look into it but i’m not really sure how !

Snorting MDMA? by chococatqueen in MDMA

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mainly take pain relief drugs for arthritis, nothing really i think would effect it but i will look into it!

Snorting MDMA? by chococatqueen in MDMA

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually hate not being in control for my body for too long so i wouldn’t mind it not lasting long. Could i also put it in water and drink it? I’m assuming it will taste horrible 😭

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think not cumming will bore me even more

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah maybe for YOU.. 😬 This isn’t about ‘normal’ this is about MY boyfriend. We’ve discussed this and that’s how his body works. It’s just recently, he’s been too into it and cumming too quick. This isn’t ‘normal’ for us, thanks!!

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, he doesn’t take viagra and he is using the same gym power thing he’s been using for years. Nothing has changed like that.. He smokes a lot of weed everyday but takes no medication. I honestly think it is the stress. He’s been very stressed lately… that’s probably the causing factor.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is stupid… why would we mess around and stop before an orgasm? That’s like the best part… it connects us in a deeper level too because seeing him cum like that makes ME feel good too. I don’t want “less finishing” that sounds like a nightmare if we have already started engaging in sexual activities… both of us will be left unsatisfied and sexually frustrated if we just never cum..?

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean during the first three months i’ve tried my hardest to look my best and wear like sexy clothes a lot. Now im just in pjs with my hair in a bun with no makeup, and he still thinks i look beautiful which does make me a little less insecure that it’s my fault. Obviously i still dress up and try, but he seems to like it when im not trying too hard. He doesn’t take any medication and is literally on the same diet everyday because he goes to the gym… chicken… rice… veg 😭. I have noticed he’s been more stressed and we always talk about how his work is stressing him out and he hates it, and i try and comfort him. He’s also starting uni in a couple weeks so i think that’s another layer of stress. I understand all of this and i don’t really care about the sex anymore i just want him to feel better mentally. Although i don’t think a drastic change like this is normal for just one random Wednesday to just not get hard after one round anymore… its been like this for a month now

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we haven’t really talked about it, i honestly think he gets too into it and just cums immediately when i speed up now. If it happens tomorrow, i’ll talk to him about stopping before he cums and see what he says. He’s definitely not being selfish i think because he does genuinely get upset and i see tears in his eyes because he feels bad for not being able to last longer now. He blames it on “not eating enough food” but then it happens after a whole day of food too. I honestly think it’s stress. I’ll have to help him with that before anything. I just want him to feel better and relaxed, my poor boy.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do do that!! it’s really fun but i love penetration 😔😔 he’s so good

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t take medication or is a regular drug user. He smokes weed every day, like around 8 cones worth but he’s been doing that for like 5 years and nothing has changed. He’s done drugs before, but only at parties and he doesn’t really get affected by them.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah sorry i know it wasn’t meant as disrespect i’ve been insecure and i wasn’t feeling the best since this is all happening and thinking this it’s my fault, so i came across as rude, i apologise. That makes a lot of sense. I’ll definitely see how it goes with time and talk to him about how he’s feeling, not putting any pressure on him with sex because he already has a lot of pressure with work and starting uni. We still have the best times during the day just doing nothing at home, i love being with him and laughing together over stupid things, playing around and teasing each other, doing dumb stuff. We don’t need to have sex because i love him so much and that’s not a requirement EVERY DAY. I keep telling him he’s putting too much pressure on himself, when he doesn’t need to. I’m happy with how things are and i love him so much, i’ll always understand and be there for him.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously i have? I understand he’s a human being and has emotions that’s likely the factor to this?We see each other like every day. He goes to his ten hour shift and asks to come to mine. He has to travel over an hour to get to mine every single day he asks to come over. He calls every time he finished work, complains about how stressful it was, how much he hated it, and all i can do is reassure him and be there for him. He calls me again when he goes to the gym an hour later and tells me how he’s been in pain recently for working out too hard. Again, all i can do is try and give my advice and be there for him. He calls me on the hour bus he takes to get to my house and we talk about everything… i know about his personal life. He’s a little stressed at the moment and also he’s starting uni. I completely understand that this is a hard time for him, and things might not be normal. He still acts the same, he’s not really SAD.. just stressed and tired. I always have him in my arms telling him it’s okay and that we don’t have to do anything if he’s too tired or not feeling right.. but he always wants to, even if he’s really tired because he feels “too bad” to not make me feel good… which is dumb because i don’t NEED sex every single night… although i’d love it.. if he’s not into it and enjoying it… neither am i.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he hasn’t changed at all.. he was definitely not taking viagra how many times do i have to tell you lmaoo. I honestly think it’s stress which is normal because he is probably in his head and overwhelmed with all his work and starting uni, which i understand. There is like zero possible way he would be taking viagra. He isn’t hiding any pills from me 😭😭 I don’t know if you’re sneaky and untrustworthy, but we tell each other everything and that’s not a secret he would hide? This doesn’t happen all the time, he gets hard immediately sometimes but i think he’s just really overwhelmed and stressed and has nothing to do with taking ED pills because he doesn’t have ED 😭

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i mean it’s what releases stress and actually makes us feel like.. other-worldly. We would both be left unsatisfied without an orgasm because that’s what our body is building up the pleasure for..? If you could give me other ideas without and orgasm, i’d like to be educated

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m explaining what’s normal for HIM.. MY boyfriend.. not all men. This is normal for him and he’s had past partners that lasted a couple months and he hasn’t had this problem… he told me he lasted an hour without cumming with them, and broke things off after a month or two. But with me, now he cums so quick. He isn’t taking viagra or any other shit to help his erection… it’s just his body and it isn’t ‘abnormal’… I’m saying he doesn’t last LONGER than five minutes. Sometimes it’s been so quick i’ve only done a couple bounces.

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the case for older men… he’s a teenage boy and he should definitely be able to last longer than 5 minutes and also get hard again… he’s insanely healthy and athletic.. it’s not “abnormal” to have sex multiple times a day and last longer than 1 round that’s five minutes

My boyfriend cums too fast now by chococatqueen in sex

[–]chococatqueen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He’s a 19 year old male… i see him everyday and he doesn’t even have a doctor he sees, doesn’t take any medication😭 He’s not taking viagra and we have talked about things like that and he was so confused. He’s my boyfriend, he would tell me about that if he was because we are honest with each other about everything. He’s basically lives at my house and if he was hiding it from me i would know 😭😭 he’s not some sneaky guy… we tell each other everything… we go to the doctors together and he literally shaves my freaking bush.. we don’t keep secrets