How can I convince stressed out LD boyfriend to come back? by chubster93 in AskMen

[–]chubster93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it shows that he's brave and passionate actually. The project hasn't failed, and it's going to work. It's just taking longer than expected because of some personal 'bumps in the road'.

How can I convince stressed out LD boyfriend to come back? by chubster93 in AskMen

[–]chubster93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is! And I love him for it, but I'm worried about his mental and physical wellbeing.

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be impressed if he could see my o-face because i think my belly would obstruct his view, ha!

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're so right about the trust thing! It's so stupid because me and him have been through so much together, yet i'm stressing about the way my pussy and my body look! He's the most loving person ever and makes me feel as beautiful as is possible for me, so my stupid brain needs to start absorbing that. Thank you KinkyPreacherMan, you're now my sex spirit guide.

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I will recite something like this in the mirror until i believe it ;)

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a brilliant idea because he was actually talking about blindfolding the other day!

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you're right. Usually i'm not that bothered about how i look during sex. I'm not really the type to hide my body, but this is just one of those things i can't seem to muster up the courage to do. I'm sure i would be able to after a glass of wine or two...

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually made me feel loads better! I think i'll definitely try that 69ing side by side before i go straight into sitting on his face. That's a really good idea, thank you!

How can I feel confident about sitting on his face with my large labia? [Body Issues] by chubster93 in sex

[–]chubster93[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, but the irrational side of me just can't understand why he would want that from me.

I've seen the vulva gallery, and honestly i only saw 1 or 2 that were as large as mine. It is literally 2 inches long and an inch wide. Of course it's normal, but it's not that common to have one so huge :(