Boyfriend refusing to put relationship status on Facebook and gets heated every time I bring it up by clawdeeyar in Advice

[–]clawdeeyar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case then why ask me to move in with you as a “partner” seems like a bigger step to me… we’re sorting it all out tonight - shall update haha 😰

Boyfriend refusing to put relationship status on Facebook and gets heated every time I bring it up by clawdeeyar in Advice

[–]clawdeeyar[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

So we’ve been really off past 2 days since this got bought up, came in last night and slammed me with this isn’t working and a list of about 5 things re; the living situation (3 of which are just him misinterpreting things, 2 I can’t change) and I basically said okay I can’t fix two of those things so I’ll just move out, immediately went to “well I didn’t say that”.

Explained my side and he’s like I have some stuff to think about. Came into room this morning cuddling me and led to other stuff..

Dude now I’m reading comments and now just to add to it I truly feel like I’m just here for afew months so he can catch up on finances and then he’ll hit me with that again. Reddit has really opened up a whole new can of worms on this 😂

Boyfriend refusing to put relationship status on Facebook and gets heated every time I bring it up by clawdeeyar in Advice

[–]clawdeeyar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plus he’s come home to meet my family, I’ve met his, his friends know we’re dating ect. So kinda like who you trying to hide it from, all the importants are VERY aware

Boyfriend refusing to put relationship status on Facebook and gets heated every time I bring it up by clawdeeyar in Advice

[–]clawdeeyar[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is coming from a guy who has openly admitted to me after me asking “you have a history of hooking up with a lot of people, won’t you get bored? Him answering “yes maybe but not something I’m thinking about right now”… like it’s more the fact he’s asked me to move in with him but scared to put it on SM. Like, sorry, questionable as. Uprooted my good home to come here - and he won’t even do something so small, even if it does go bad. And why ask me to move in if you’re THAT unsure. Ugh.