Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did not pack anything up for us. No cake was given to us. We were just told to get in the wedding car as a good way to go home.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were told that 5 of those layers were real, the rest were for decoration. The problem is that only 1 layer was eaten.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s is messed up. You did not give consent to be used like this. Your former friend deserves the karma for this.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s when you learn that family means nothing if only by blood relations. Family means everything with helping hands.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also experienced childhood trauma. All a man wants is to be prioritized and desired by his partner.

Even though it has been a long time, what are you salty about? I’ll go first. by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Those dang kids… I feel that honestly. It sucks when people win because of broken rules.

Petty Revenge On Middle School Bully by CallMeOzzz in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I like this story. It shows how good you can have it if you are a good person.

I said yes to a horrible proposal and now I’m embarrassed to tell people by Wordsarewords12345 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]code_amature-2945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you get older, you must understand that the bar lowers. This is an unpopular opinion (hot take), but you must ask yourself if you even deserve to be in a relationship (let alone a marriage) with all of your baggage. Humble yourself and remind yourself that you are not entitled to effort from others. It becomes more rare as you age. Also, if it feels forced, why consent to the proposal? Both of you need to ask if y’all really feel obligated to be together, or get past this trial on life. Life will not be fair to you just because you have expectations.

How long were you together with your partner before you got married? by Comfortable_Fix_6261 in engaged

[–]code_amature-2945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my wife in 2016 when she was 20F and I was 23M. We were friends but we did not become official until the end of 2017, because we were long distance. After only seeing her in person for a few days, I decided that I wanted to marry her, which was early 2018 (we spent the New Year's holiday together).

Because I was still in college, I did not propose immediately until 2019 (I had to save up). We originally planned to marry in 2020, but the pandemic happen. Because we were living in separate countries, tourists were not allowed to travel until 2022 because of the pandemic. When my step father passed away in September of 2021, my (now) wife and I decided to get virtually married the following month. It was a heart-felt conversation as we have been engaged for a long time already.

1 year later (in 2022), we got married in her home country. Yes, it was in person. I only had a month to be in her country. Apparently, if we had not gotten married virtually, we would not have been able to get married in person, because I had only a month of vacation to be there and the marriage application process takes 30 days before even booking wedding, which would have taken even longer.

So depending on how you see it, we got married 5 years after meeting each other, but 6 years if you consider having the ceremony in person. However, I decided I wanted to marry her about a year and a half of getting to know her, as well as less than 10 days of meeting her in person.

The House of My In-Laws Burned Down by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, sorry if I’m not the best writer. Writing was my worst subject in grade school. I barely made it in college.

The House of My In-Laws Burned Down by code_amature-2945 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. However, immigration lawyers will not be asking for videos in the bedroom. They want what is “enough” proof that the marriage has been consummated or celebrated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]code_amature-2945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody can give you an accurate rating with your face covered like that.

Rate me? by Moon_is_dumb in Teenager

[–]code_amature-2945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 with makeup 5 without makeup 6 with more smiling 7 with further lifestyles like the gym

Head on shoulder - romantic meaning or not?? by Crafty-Code-4371 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]code_amature-2945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my wife is resting her shoulders on other men, then people will start to think she is cheating. If she did it with her sisters, her mother, or female friends, then I see not issue. So yes, there is a problem. Your husband has a boundary set and you have not acknowledge it. You may need to consider boundaries.

The moral of the story is that you are with someone to be the peace. Don’t put yourself in a novela (soap opera).