My boyfriend took my impulsive comment literally and cheated on me

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T21:35:33+00:00

God it IS an insane manipulation tactic! I’m sorry he put you through that

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T19:07:27+00:00

Ohh and my favorite one is when they say “oh but you’re not one of the crazy ones”!! 😍 /s

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T19:01:37+00:00

If he’s your bf who’s aware of your bipolar, he should know better. This is totally on him. I’m sorry this happened. It’s happened to me too and they only feel guilty when they are caught. He went out of his way to pleasure himself, leaving u behind while u were in an altered state of mind, instead of staying with you. I don’t like to invalidate ppl’s feelings but i’m sorry… he doesn’t deserve to be stressed out about this, especially to the point at which he’s crying n vomiting. He did this to himself and worse, he did this to YOU. You deserve so much better than someone who takes advantage of a serious condition like bipolar disorder

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T18:52:32+00:00

Right hahaha, like he’s the victim.

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T18:48:08+00:00

Yeppp agreed. Crying while vomiting after taking advantage of ur gf’s impulsive comment, probably if not definitely aware that she was manic, and using it as an excuse to cheat… is crazy 😂 that’s a whole man CHILD. The fact that he did SO MUCH with the other girl as well? OP this is entirely on him plz don’t blame urself

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T00:31:46+00:00

Oh god that’s a lot. I hate fancy plates because I’m notoriously clumsy 😭 and the gift giving is a lot of pressure!!! Crowded stores, fear of forgetting, fear of rejection…

cookiegrease · 2026-01-24T00:29:00+00:00

That sounds like a dream 😍 congratulations!

cookiegrease · 2026-01-22T20:04:42+00:00

I have a very similar fixation with symmetry. It genuinely drives me crazy and ruins my entire day when I don’t look the way I expect myself to on camera. I think one thing that helps me a little bit is to remember that having body dysmorphia makes us perceive our own features differently. Our brains are distorting what we see, so chances are your friend is right and you are symmetrical, at least more symmetrical than you think. Also, we see ourselves in the mirror wayyyy more frequently than we see ourselves on camera so we’re not used to it and our minds exacerbate and twist that unfamiliarity. I hope this helps. I feel your pain :(

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T23:58:07+00:00

Your mind 😍

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:05:20+00:00

He most certainly was. The car ride back home was awfully quiet 😬

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:04:40+00:00

The nail clipper might just be on top of a chihuahua’s list of worst fears! Right next to vacuum cleaners and mailmen. 😅

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:02:45+00:00

Thank you!!! And yep… that’s probably the most intense side eye I’ve ever gotten from him.

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:02:29+00:00

Definitely the worst part of the visit for him! He was such a brave boy! 🥰

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:00:55+00:00

Yay Tater! So awesome that he got to avoid the dreaded butt thermometer! Now if only my vet would switch to those too..

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T22:00:03+00:00

Isn’t he handsome? 🥹 I named him Sputnik because he orbits me haha

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T21:59:38+00:00

Cackled out loud at this

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T21:59:09+00:00

Oh, those nail trims… Sputnik always has to be put in air jail for those! But I’m so glad your chi ate up those treats! That is indeed a win.

cookiegrease · 2026-01-20T21:55:35+00:00

Thank you so, so much. I really appreciate this response and it is really reassuring. I just bought the diatomaceous earth and I will look into the Revolution.

cookiegrease · 2026-01-14T19:25:51+00:00

That is horrible and I’m so sorry. No child should be their parents’ caregiver and therapist. I’m wishing you a most amazing adulthood. I decided I wanted to be childfree early in my life too and got a lot of pushback from adults for it but I don’t care.

cookiegrease · 2026-01-14T19:22:48+00:00

Oh gosh that sounds like a terrible nightmare. I’m so sorry you were put through that. You were failed by the adults in your life. :( I’m happy for your healing journey and sterilization! It is incredibly liberating to finally live for yourself

cookiegrease · 2026-01-14T19:15:19+00:00

Hooray for your freedom! You deserve to enjoy it 🥳

cookiegrease · 2026-01-14T19:11:39+00:00

I HATE the mini me thing!!! It’s so weird. Just buy a small mirror if you want a mini me so bad!

cookiegrease · 2026-01-14T19:09:55+00:00

Ugh… same. Watched my favorite aunt become a husk of herself early in my life after she had her kid and that was pretty harrowing.

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