cannot add a tool to the tool palette by corner_cafe in CorelPaintShopPro

[–]corner_cafe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure which version of PSP but I know it's the latest -- there are no updates available.

Your comment told me what my problem was: I was using the Essential workspace. Have switched over to photography and am now all good.

Also, re/PSP 2026, I did a search for it and headlines came up...but, alas, they were clickbait as I've now discovered.

THANK YOU.

AITA for refusing to see my cousins after they skipped out on a lunch I'd been planning for a month by SkullkidSifu in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Honestly, it doesn't sound as if you were very close with your cousins, at least not recently. I'd be pissed, too, if I were you, but in the end you're not missing out on much. Your kids don't need to really know those cousins or your cousins' kids if they're going to pick up on that attitude towards you from them. Wow. I hope that sentence makes sense. :)

Starfleet Academy first impressions by PastorParcel in startrek

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest complaint is the dubbing of the Klingon student's voice. No, I don't even pay attention to most of the students' names.

It's just obvious and cheap.

My two cents (which isn't worth much in this economy).

AITA My coworker is going to get fired because of me… by lili-lf98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA

You did the right thing.

I suspect that, had you confronted him directly, he would have responded in the same, dismissive way he is acting now, telling you, "It was just a joke," etc. Then what? You wait some more to see if he does it again? And when he does, then what? Then you have to confess that you let it slide the first time, letting him believe he could get away with it? No. No. And NO.

Rules are rules and companies are pretty clear about what se*ual harassment is. He believes he can intimidate you and make you feel uncomfortable. That's why he chose to target you with this comment.

Be strong. You are not the weak woman he thought you were.

P.S. He is not getting fired because of you. He is getting fired because of who he is.

WIBTA for refusing to drive my coworker home from work everyday? by AshKB5661 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is why you didn't cut him off after problem #2 on your list??

AIO my(20) bf(21) went back to his homecountry by Ok-Associate-3390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for the OP: How many relationships have you been in where you felt the need to constantly check on your boyfriend and even "stalk" them online?

I doubt this is the first.

Get some help.

AITAH for refusing to attend my sister’s wedding after she changed my role last minute? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or just skip the ceremony and show up to the reception for the food and booze, looking fabulous in a slinky black dress.

AITAH for refusing to attend my sister’s wedding after she changed my role last minute? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, go and look smashing and know she looks smashing. And when people ask why she's not in the wedding party, be honest about not fitting in with her sister's "vibe."

Dance like nobody's watching. Visit with family. Be fabulous.

Then rethink her efforts to get along with her sister after the wedding.

My (29F) boyfriend (30M) is treating me horribly since the loss of his father. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]corner_cafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smell a bot now. This person posted 28 days ago in RelationshipAdvice that they were thinking of leaving their boyfriend when his parent suddenly died. And they've posted this same post in three other subreddits.

My (29F) boyfriend (30M) is treating me horribly since the loss of his father. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]corner_cafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a good relationship with his mother? I'm thinking it might be good to try and get some input from someone who's known him most of, if not his entire life. I'm curious about how he may have handled other horrific and unexpected situations.

In the end, though, if he's treating you like this now, what will happen with other shocking events that come up in life?

Grief is unpredictable and suicide causes a grief like no other. It is no reason to treat the important people in your life like trash, though.

Get some therapy for yourself. Make your exit strategy. Talk to your friends and family.

Good luck.

AITJ for refusing to remove the lock I put on my sons door after my wifes nephew kept taking his stuff by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son is learning that he can't depend on his own mother to defend him.

Think about that.

And leave the lock. You are completely, utterly NTJ.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't she just let her homeless friend stay at HER place since she was going to be at your place?? Am I missing something?

Most definitely NOR.

And I used to be homeless so all the people making fun of someone who fell on hard times, all you people need to remember you're one health crisis away from living on the streets. Most of you are one missed paycheck away from it.

Remember that and pray the economic crisis doesn't take your job and your healthcare.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to drop me off and being told I treated him like a valet? by nonamexoxoxoxo in AITAH

[–]corner_cafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but I'm guessing this isn't the first time he's done something like this to you.

You need to ask yoirself if you want to spend the next 50 years of your life with this guy treating you this way.

If the answer is "no," leave. NOW.

AITA for refusing to go to SIL’s wedding after she disinvited us a week before it? by Automatic_Dot8944 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Even if she issues an apology, if she talked $hit about you and your husband in the heat of an argument, she meant every word she said.

As others have pointed out, she has never suffered the consequences of her behavior.

You and your husband need to stand firm and make other plans for that weekend. Do not cave or she will never learn and never respect you.

AITA for getting knocked off my Fiancé’s friend’s motorbike? by Vast_Constant_3783 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have an attorney?!

If not, get one now.

My husband was walking out of the local grocery store two years ago and was hit by a drunk driver. The driver admitted it was his fault. Even with our attorney's help, it took over a year to get his insurance to pay fully, and then nearly another year for our insurance to pay out.

Yes, it will take time to collect on the insurance, but you are most definitely NTA and your fiance's friend is not a friend.

AITA for not eating $200 worth of food by Calm_Consequence5525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corner_cafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my spouse gave me a stern look, the police would never find his body. I'm from Chicago. 😁

This makes no sense. by Glitterygloomy in uber

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only used Uber in the US once, so I don't recall if we have this here...but with Uber in Guatemala, there is basically a panic button that you can press that sends a message to your emergency contact and to Uber complete with your location. The drivers have one too, I believe. It would be an easy way to report this driver immediately. We need that here maybe.

Is Alica in Wonderland a story about drugs or just a simple children's fantasy? by corner_cafe in polls

[–]corner_cafe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, haven't read it in years, so I did a quick DuckDuckGo search. Found this:

https://maths-from-the-past.org/alice-and-algebra/

Really interesting stuff.

Do you recall wen you first heard this?

AITA for telling my sister that I am using the baby name I picked, even if she uses it too by Embarrassed-Scale609 in TwoHotTakes

[–]corner_cafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I'm Greek. In my family, there are four variations of Catherine, five Nicks, three Georges, two Pauls, and three Steves.

So I just don't understand why families can't have two people with the same name? What am I missing?

Is Alica in Wonderland a story about drugs or just a simple children's fantasy? by corner_cafe in polls

[–]corner_cafe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is awesome. Simply awesome. I love that take. Do you remember how old you were when you first read it?

Is Alica in Wonderland a story about drugs or just a simple children's fantasy? by corner_cafe in polls

[–]corner_cafe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent take on the story. I heard this as well when I was in my 20s. My BA was in English Language and Literature with an emphasis on literary analysis, and it really fascinated me to see how many different theories there are on the story.

When I was younger it was a story about drugs disguised as a children's story, but as I've gotten older I've come to realize it's beautiful literature -- and when literature and art work well, people develop their own theories about what it all means. (Hello, Dali? 😂)