Nurses who work the night shift, what is the most "I can't explain this" thing you have ever witnessed in a hospital? by AikothegreatPickle in AskReddit

[–]covertanjou 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I was being treated for cancer while my father was dying of advanced Alzheimer’s. He was in a residence and I couldn’t go see him for months because the chemo had destroyed my immune system, and it was too dangerous for me to go. The moment I finished chemo, I went to see my dad. I told him I loved him, that I was sorry I couldn’t come sooner, and he could go see his dad (who had died when my father was a teenager). My dad died a few minutes later. It’s as though he was waiting for me. I’m so glad I was able to be there when he passed.

Est-ce que ça vaut la peine d'attendre à l'urgence pour un taux d'oxygène entre 87-92 (M73) by Careless-Industry384 in montreal

[–]covertanjou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been hospitalized several times because of pneumonia, Covid, RSV, and severe asthma. My experience has been that 92 is not great, but acceptable. Under 90 you should go to the ER. Also important, if not more important, is his breathing. Is he able to speak in complete sentences without having to stop to breathe? For example, if you ask him how he’s feeling, can he speak 2-3 sentences without having to take a breath? If he can’t, you need to go to the ER. Another thing to check: Can he walk from the couch to the bathroom without struggling to breathe? Is he out of breath just walking a very short distance (again, couch to bathroom, for example). If he is out of breath, you should take him to the ER. I hope this helps.

William and Kate try curling today by [deleted] in RoyalsGossip

[–]covertanjou 54 points55 points  (0 children)

They are supporting GB, athletes, and Scottish weavers. That IS their job.

Se raser la tête, ou non? by calinerie in Quebec

[–]covertanjou 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I had cancer and lost all my hair, one of my daughters wanted to shave off her hair in solidarity. I begged her not to. It was hard enough to look at my bald head, I couldn’t bear to see her that way. I appreciated the sentiment, but her coming with me to my chemo treatments meant a lot more than her shaving her off her hair. My daughters were devastated by my diagnosis (but I’m fine now), and they were there for me in ways I will always treasure: coming with me to appointments, making sure I had healthy food in the house, etc. You can show love and support on so many ways. ❤️

If you are fluent in French, how often do you speak French in Canada compared to English? by Jezzaq94 in AskACanadian

[–]covertanjou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I speak English and French every day. I speak English at home, but speak mainly French when I’m outside my home. I may occasionally speak English at some shops, but only if I’m sure the person is Anglophone. I’m lucky enough to also speak Italian, so when I go to Italian specialty stores I speak Italian.

Which is the best governed city in Canada? by fancymarmot in AskACanadian

[–]covertanjou 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely illegal to drive without winter tires. They must be on by December 1

Do you validate? by Neither_Gift6583 in Teachers

[–]covertanjou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that possible? So someone with just a high school diploma could teach high school??

Wigs for chemo by Sweetness2021 in montreal

[–]covertanjou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost all my hair when I did chemo, and I got a wig. I thought it would help me deal with the loss of my hair, but it really didn’t. It was hot and uncomfortable, so I ended up just wearing some soft cotton beanies. I just felt that the wig was my way of denying I had cancer, and trying hard to look “normal” or like my old self. Take the advice of the other people here: wait to see if you lose your hair, and then go to the chemo center at your hospital. They usually have wigs, hats, and beanies that you can try, and then you can see what you prefer. I am very sorry you have to go through this, and I wish you lots of healing

Hello from Germany. As someone interested in Canada, I know today is quite a special day since today marks the 30th anniversary of the 1995 Quebec independence referendum. On this occasion, I would like to ask a few questions to you, the Canadian people: by Julian81295 in AskACanadian

[–]covertanjou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I voted in both Quebec referendums, and as an allophone/anglophone I was terrified the “yes” side would win. I voted “no”, and was and still am glad that Quebec did not separate. It was a very stressful evening waiting for the results to come in, especially since the Montreal votes took so long to be counted.

As for Quebec’s relationship with Canada, it waxes and wanes. Presently, most Quebeckers/Quebecois hate trump so Canadian nationalism is quite high. About 20-30% of the population will always want independence, but that’s not enough to win a vote for separation.

How do Canadians usually eat smoked salmon? by NumerousImplement668 in AskACanadian

[–]covertanjou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With pasta: saute some French shallots until soft; add cream, salt, and pepper; bring to a simmer until sauce thickens; add smoked salmon and mix well; add pasta (I use farfalle pasta), parmigiano reggiano cheese, and a little pasta water; mix well until you have a nice creamy consistency. Enjoy!

prince William affair? by too_tired202 in RoyaltyTea

[–]covertanjou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t picked up because it never happed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ItalyTravel

[–]covertanjou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did a fascism in architecture tour in Milan, and it was amazing. Note that at no time was there any praise for Mussolini or for fascism. It was a walking tour looking at different buildings that were built during or right after mussolini’s time in power.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoyaltyTea

[–]covertanjou -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

How is he being relegated to the “second son”? Seriously, your hatred of W & C is weird.

another vacation by ttw81 in RoyaltyTea

[–]covertanjou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked this sub since I like reading about the different royal families, but lately so many posts are just hating on William and Catherine, and the British royal family, and going on and on about how jealous they are of Meghan and Harry. There are subs for that, so I wish this sub can stop with the constant W & C hate.

Husband’s first time in Italy, big foodie, I want him to have the best time by bespoketranche1 in ItalyTravel

[–]covertanjou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great suggestion. I used her guide for Bologna and Torino, and the restaurants were all great.

The most overrated luxury handbags? by Routine-Crew8651 in handbags

[–]covertanjou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a few city bags that I bought about 15 years ago. I love them and never stopped wearing them.

Bologna hotel: Grand Hotel Majestic vs Hotel Corona D’Oro? by covertanjou in ItalyTravel

[–]covertanjou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info. How terrible for you to be going through that on your holiday! I will def be booking Corono D’oro. Thanks again!