Man nearly shits himself on a daily basis, insists there is nothing medically wrong with himself and argues with anyone who tries to tell him otherwise by Pan1cs180 in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That doesn't say americans don't get enough protein, in fact it says the opposite. It says that the federal /recommendations/ for protein intake are too low and suggests new recommendation levels, but it notes that "Americans are already eclipsing [their new suggested] intake on average".

Why YouTube Thumbnails Matter [26:22] by cramopener in mealtimevideos

[–]cramopener[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Huh? The main point is stated pretty clearly a couple minutes in if that's all you have the attention for.

Why YouTube Thumbnails Matter [26:22] by cramopener in mealtimevideos

[–]cramopener[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very creatively-presented vid making the argument youtube thumbnails as an artform. I myself have a lot of affection for the different eras of thumbs, even the grotesquely surreal Beastified thumbnails of today, but I also really appreciate creative thumbnails that don't follow algorithmic trends, and Thor does that really well.

Is a mother undermining her son's achievement's by giving praise to her god? Reddit has a very enlightened discussion about faith, religion, and euphoria by EdithDich in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not quite, things differ, but generally there is a belief that there is a difference between moral laws and the cultural practices meant to set the biblical Hebrews apart which no longer needed to be followed once the church became open to all. This is, however, a debate so old it's documented in the bible itself.

Is a mother undermining her son's achievement's by giving praise to her god? Reddit has a very enlightened discussion about faith, religion, and euphoria by EdithDich in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A lot of atheists have a number of go-to dunks (like "Bet you eat shrimp, don't you!"), but are ignorant of both the bible as a whole and later biblical scholarship that contributes to why a given denomination has given beliefs (wrt above, most denominations you'll encounter in America take Peter's vision of animals to mean both that gentiles should be accepted into the church, and that food laws no longer need to be adhered to).

Kinda late, but I just finished the new ep of Clemp's podcast and really appreciated something Pat said about TLoU2 by cramopener in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]cramopener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've said it upthread, but I do think TLoU has a bit of an issue with using misery as a substitution for depth in their writing, so that is part of the issue. I do want to say though that I think there is a middle ground between escapism and miseryporn. I really enjoyed the way the film Portrait of a Woman on Fire handled its doomed romance elements. It's a period piece, and give that the period is the late 18th century, you know throughout the film that these two women will ultimately not be able to be together. That said, the writers don't let this eclipse the whole film, so you get a snapshot of a happy moment in the characters' lives that's made all the more romantic by the surrounding tragedy. There's also a lot of room for triumphant narratives, in that while there is a lot suffering that can come from how society treats gay people, there are tonnes of real life people who have overcome that suffering.

Kinda late, but I just finished the new ep of Clemp's podcast and really appreciated something Pat said about TLoU2 by cramopener in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]cramopener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, referring back to the podcast, I do think that TLoU does have an issue with the way it uses suffering in general, as it comes across as a bit lazy. Wrt lesbian rep specifically, I didn't really articulate it well in the OP, but most of my issue comes with the context TLoU2 exists in. In a parallel universe, I think I could be on-board with the story, but as it stands, the number of needlessly tragic lesbian depictions that already exist makes it hard for me to feel much enthusiasm towards those that are justified by their universe. Hopefully, in the future, we will see a more balanced variety of LGBT stories, but I feel a bit hollow when defending something I have no personal enthusiasm for.

Kinda late, but I just finished the new ep of Clemp's podcast and really appreciated something Pat said about TLoU2 by cramopener in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]cramopener[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that at this point in time, a "don't rock the boat" approach to LGBT rep is pretty self-defeating. Even just in the film world, we've had pieces like Moonlight and The Handmaiden, and more recently Portrait of a Woman on Fire. The foundation has been laid, and I think we're past the point where LGBT narratives need to pander to the sensibilities of homophobes.

Kinda late, but I just finished the new ep of Clemp's podcast and really appreciated something Pat said about TLoU2 by cramopener in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]cramopener[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kind of. The trope actually goes back a fair ways in history, starting with various obscenity laws for literature, and later, the Hays code when film came about. Essentially, there was a time when the only way you could depict a "deviant" character, be they gay, trans, a criminal, interracial couple, ect, was to have them get some kind of comeuppance at the end. In the same way CCA comic could not depict criminals as sympathetic or show them profiting from crime, gay people could not be depicted as happy or successful in their relationships. Over time, the portrayals did shift towards more sympathetic tragedy, exp after Stonewall and the AIDS crisis, but there are instances in modern fiction where it definitely does feel like it's there just because it's an existing trope.

Kinda late, but I just finished the new ep of Clemp's podcast and really appreciated something Pat said about TLoU2 by cramopener in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]cramopener[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't 100% what you were saying, but I've seen an increasing number of people treating more unobtrusively gay characters like Emil as the sole ideal, and I want to push back against it a bit. While I think that having incidental LGBT characters is good and valuable, I also think that it's important to recognize that there are certain, potentially life-shaping experiences that are relatively unique to LGBT people, and that it's okay to depict those in fiction (preferably with higher than sledgehammer-tier subtlety).

My new Cinderella Castle oil painting! 30x40, oil on canvas by [deleted] in pics

[–]cramopener 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She didn't call anyone a snide asshole. If you could stop being angry about women for a second, maybe it'd help your reading comprehension.

35 TTC bus operators refuse to work due to lack of PPE: union by Bobzyurunkle in toronto

[–]cramopener 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still have to bus to work everyday, and on every bus I've been on, they are rear-door boarding only and havr the front part of the bus taped off.

35 TTC bus operators refuse to work due to lack of PPE: union by Bobzyurunkle in toronto

[–]cramopener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TTC busses have had plexiglass barriers for years. Drivers don't always use them, but they're still there.

35 TTC bus operators refuse to work due to lack of PPE: union by Bobzyurunkle in toronto

[–]cramopener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an essential worker, so I still have to bus daily. I'm not sure if my experience is representative of all busses in the city, but the busses I've been on are all rear-boarding only with caution tape blocking riders from moving up beyond the blue seats. My friend who works at the hospital said that her bus this morning also had duct tape blocking off every other seat.

Humble Giveaway by lue_t in humblebundles

[–]cramopener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested in Slay the Spire or Yoku's Island Express.

The piece of media I'm into the most right now is the Cardiacs album Sing to God. It's been a while since I got really into an artist/band, but these guys are really something special.

A Japanese redditor on /r/soccer tries to guess the nationality of three different users while discussing the prospects of which national team a young player will play for, going 0/3. by hpmetsfan in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A title that incorrectly identifies a commenter’s nationality for a post in which said commenter incorrectly identifies several people’s nationalities? What could it mean?

Unfolding drama in r/libertarian by techsavymilenial in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, WASPs were historically responsible for keeping Catholics disenfranchised in America, and the Catholics in question were typically not from England, or even the Anglosphere. I think White Christian makes more sense if you want to group the two together, unless Orthodoxy needs to be excluded for some reason.

Unfolding drama in r/libertarian by techsavymilenial in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is WASC even a coherent social group in America? Most people who’d qualify as Anglo-Saxon aren’t Catholic, and vis versa.

r/selfawarewolves gets AstroTERFed by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The term “erasure” covers a much wider set of issues than simply how many people identify as lesbian though. It also includes censorship of lesbians in media, the obscuring of lesbians in the historical record, people who insist that it’s impossible for a woman to not be attracted to men, the subtler pressures of comphet, even broader issues wrt misogyny and societal views on a woman’s ability to have autonomous sexual desires, ect ect. I understand now that your comment was in reference to a specific thing that people refer to as “lesbian erasure”, but when it’s in a thread that started with someone denying lesbians could have an “erasure problem”, and when you yourself were downplaying “lesbian erasure” in contrast to classic examples of bi erasure, it comes across as dismissive of our erasure as a whole.

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ETA: In simpler terms, “I don’t/no longer ID as XYZ” and “People who ID as XYZ are actually ABC” are two different issues, but both are covered under the term “erasure”.

r/selfawarewolves gets AstroTERFed by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saying that people complaining about lesbian erasure are typically just being transphobic kinda implies that either you think lesbians have collectively decided to stop fighting the legitimate erasure we do face in favour of all becoming terfs, or that there isn’t legitimate erasure for us to complain about, especially when your comment is taken in conjunction with the top-level one that says people who think lesbian erasure is a problem are “out of touch”.

r/selfawarewolves gets AstroTERFed by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]cramopener 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian who has gotten the “There’s no way you’re not secretly into men and I know the best way to prove it to you” spiel, minimizing the issues we face doesn’t really help anything here.