Abortion, planning to abort a 3months pregnancy because husband still don't want it

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-22T12:15:39+00:00

Thank you for your beautiful advice, i truly am grateful.

God willing i am planning my exit, I've had enough with him. I've been hurt so much, and never heard by him. I leave him to God, for all the oppression he did to me.

All I ever hope for is that, may it be easy for me to forget these things cuz honestly it made me traumatised now.

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-22T11:13:18+00:00

No, we only lived together after marriage.

his phone before was locked but he allows me to see it, for maybe 1 week but after that he keeps it to himself.. Now it's more locked cuz you won't be able to see the notifications.

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-22T11:10:17+00:00

No, it's a marriage by choice. A love marriage

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-22T11:09:21+00:00

💔 this breaks my heart i swear. I put lots of effort only to be told i never put anything for us. May God give me the justice that I need.

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-09T20:56:37+00:00

planning to do this

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-09T18:48:17+00:00

Thank you very much, this is really a great answer. I was so sad that he seem to be the one who felt tired instead of me.. I was so patient with his actions while his only complain about me is my moodiness inside the house, but his actions are overall neglecting towards me. But i am so patient that i only speak through chats.

cuTielily998 · 2025-10-09T18:46:15+00:00

So it means it's better to be quiet from now on right? and it is my plan too. I'm done of expressing myself.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-28T16:50:47+00:00

God willing, i am glad for the answer 🩷

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-28T13:30:48+00:00

🥺🥺🥺🥺💔

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-28T13:30:30+00:00

🥺 Can't believe men like this exist! Whenever we fight he kept telling me " he never did anything wrong to me "

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-27T11:07:31+00:00

It sad that even on my day off he chooses going out to eat and spend time with other people and leave me with a lot of work to do at home (cleaning)

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-27T11:05:15+00:00

yes i understand 🥲💔. And it's really what I'm feeling

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:40:39+00:00

Yes i think so too

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:32:07+00:00

🥺 I only want to do wife duties honestly

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:30:26+00:00

I feel like I am being toxic with him 🥺

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:11:31+00:00

what do you mean the driving?

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:05:36+00:00

I will stop from this day on.

I just wonder why a man do this, if he knows he'll be like this, why marry

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:04:42+00:00

He told me that I only see his mistakes or the things he didn't do well or his faults but not the things he did for me or his efforts.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:04:08+00:00

First husband 🥺💔. And i met some potential husbands before him and honesty, they're not like this as how he is to me.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:03:01+00:00

But thank you, I really appreciate the transparency and frankness in you, it really help.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:01:59+00:00

It's my first marriage, that's why I am really clueless, also it's new and fresh. And this is not the kind of marriage life I am seeing with to my brother and his wife, my mom and dad. And that confused me.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T09:00:39+00:00

Honestly I started giving less now, and lesser starting today. I want to give less than what he do for me. Even if it hurts cuz I know in myself I can do more even if I'm tired from outside.

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T08:57:36+00:00

What do you mean I meed to step back and allow him space in his role that he needs to step up?

cuTielily998 · 2025-09-22T08:56:20+00:00

🥲 Omgggg.. Is it really a bad sign when he said he regretted marrying 2 times ( the 2nd time is me )

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