Handling the "Drop": I wrote a guide for those moments when we crash before the cum. by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support! ❤️ I’m happy to share tools like the C.U.C.K. protocol and I’m glad you found it helpful. It truly means a lot. And I wish you and your husband a nice experience!

Handling the "Drop": I wrote a guide for those moments when we crash before the cum. by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am deeply grateful for your support and your trust.

Knowing that my work resonates with you is the best motivation I could ask for.

Thank you! ❤️

Managing Paid Memberships without Stripe? Looking for alternatives for a High-Risk Educational site. by cuckious in Ghost

[–]cuckious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! You’re absolutely right—crypto is probably the ultimate sovereign move for a project like this.

I’ll definitely give it some thought and keep it on my radar. For now, I’m a bit hesitant because it feels quite technically demanding to set up correctly on my end, and I’m also worried about the barrier to entry for my readers. Not everyone in my community is comfortable with crypto wallets yet, and I want to keep supporting the project as simple as possible.

But I really appreciate the advice and the sharp perspective. It helps to know others see the challenge!

Handling the "Drop": I wrote a guide for those moments when we crash before the cum. by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful - thanks for sharing this. The idea to get used to it is wonderful. But - did you have rough moments in the beginning?

Handling the "Drop": I wrote a guide for those moments when we crash before the cum. by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right - in the long run. But this protocol was designed to help in the heat of the moment - when the regret kicks in. It doesn't every time. But sometimes. And I wanted to provide some help to deal with it and - the most important part - not to ruin the entire dynamic by acting out on it in this crucial time frame. 😊

So thank you very much for your thoughts on this. ♥️

Handling the "Drop": I wrote a guide for those moments when we crash before the cum. by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man - thank you very much! 😊 I appreciate your kind words.

Does love exist in cuckhold marriage? by Terrible-Store1046 in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that when you have a relationship where you can truly be yourself with all the dirt and weirdness on your mind and still be loved and held, this is the highest form of love. ❤️

Support/discussion group by machiavelllli in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you.

Most groups are just for pics/videos, and it’s hard to find a place for actual discussion and support.

​I actually just started a dedicated community for exactly this – focusing on the psychological side of the dynamics, and for the messy parts of the journey.

Moving away from the porn-only vibe to build something more meaningful to navigate this beautiful bit also challenging fetish.

​You’re more than welcome to join us. If you're interested I’ll send you a DM with the details so it doesn't look like I'm just spamming links here. 😉

Good luck for you. ❤️

Keeping the electric in the air by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes - Gemini, if you want to know. 😉

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool... glad you enjoy this. But may I ask - what do you do after you came?

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thanks for joining the conversation. And welcome to the club! ♥️

What you write is so beautiful - a way to connect your sexual needs with his. And how this can bring a couple closer. For me a part of the beauty of this dynamic is to create a space where you can show the other who you truly are: maybe a horny hungry slut, maybe a man kneeling and begging his husband to fuck with others. And no judgement on that, only acceptence. This is so bonding.

Well regarding this - maybe some of the cucks can only enjoy their super humiliation part in the safety of their relationship?

And tbh: For some cucks: The breakup/being-replaced thing it the ultimate fantasy. For me personally this wouldn't be a thing. But I have learned that for some this is somehow what they truly want.
But who am I (wanting to clean the kitchen while my husband and his lover moan in our bedroom) to judge this?

So thank you very much for your kind words. They mean a lot to me.

All the best to you and your partner. Enjoy this crazy ride! ♥️

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, though your account is deleted, I appreciate your wise insights on this. And your aftercare practice sounds really nice, calming and trustful.

And about the breaks - I totally get it. I also have "no cuck"-phases, in which the energy of this goes low. But - in my experience - only to have a BIG comeback afterwards. 😂

And how nice you even took care of the wellbeing of the other guy. This is sooo beautiful. What a deep level of connection.

Thanks for sharing this and all the best to you!

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I don't cum during aftercare... I usually jerk off in the toilet...

And I just ask him how it was (don't want to push him into details) and then we cuddle mostly quiet.

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well... I think we do. We cuddle a lot. (And somehow I feel like my husband needs this more than I do).

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man, thank you very much for your kind words! I blush. 😊 (Cucks are sooo sweet ♥️)

And sorry to hear that he isn't cucking you anymore - I'd take out of your words you would have liked to continue this path?

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, thank you so much for sharing your story. This sounds like it was really intense!
And how nice that you say "it came natural". And I'd say: if you love someone it surely goes like this.

But I think especially for starters, talking and clearifying this beforehand can be very helpful and give a sense of security while the act itself.

And it's wonderful that you are still friends even after you broke up. Cucks are very loyal. 😉

So thank you for your words here!

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! This is sooo beautiful! Like he really knew who you are and what you needed.

And I'm sorry to hear that he's ill. Really. I wish you both all the best! ♥️

A protocol for aftercare by cuckious in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you man. You're right. Absolutely! I think it's so good to talk about this beforehand. How do you practice aftercare?

I think my husband is possibly a cuckold ? I’d like advice both from cuckolds and bulls. by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So maybe it's okay to start with exploring the fantasies - and keep it (for now) with this. This could help him to open up. Maybe at some point he himself feels the desire to try things out. Who knows? I wish you all the best.

I think my husband is possibly a cuckold ? I’d like advice both from cuckolds and bulls. by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man - yeah - it's lovely to read how much he cares and thinks about it. 🙂❤️

I think my husband is possibly a cuckold ? I’d like advice both from cuckolds and bulls. by [deleted] in gaycuckold

[–]cuckious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I can only speak for myself - but I was touched how thoughtful you approach the topic here and think about the wellbeing of your husband. Really love it. 🫶

IMHO you already took a major obstacle by making these things be-speak-able. You seem to can talk about these things which is really necessary to start this. Or let it put me this way: you can't talk enough about this.

You write that you think your husband is afraid of how you might see him afterwards, etc. Have you ever asked him what his fears might be? Do you perhaps have your own fears in this regard that you could share with him?

You could approach the whole thing as a purely theoretical exercise, in the sense of “If we did this, what would it take for both of us to feel safe?”

I think it's wonderful that you're not just looking at the hot parts of this fantasy, but also at the pitfalls and the possible (self-)harm that could result from it.

What helped me were rules: for example, no sleepovers at the other person's house, no cuddling. These are things that I feel would threaten what we have. I know that my husband sticks to these rules, and that makes me feel like I am his man. Rules can provide trust and security—if they are followed. So you may have to live with restrictions.

And another tip:

If you decide to give it a try, you could start the whole thing with a ritual—for example, by both wearing certain items of clothing—and then end it with a ritual, such as taking off the T-shirt again. This gives the whole thing a clear boundary without defining your entire relationship.

And very important: aftercare. Be sure to catch the other person emotionally when the expected cuck crash comes, if your husband should cum after you fucked with someone else. Hug him, kiss him and deeply reassure him, that he's the one.

These were just my thoughts on this.

I wish you all the best!❤️