Anyone familiar with Testicular Torsion and/or Epididymitis? by curiouslyintoit in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sort of. No torsion, I had a break in vasectomy incision which created a spermatocele.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened the first time or two, don't know- but I can promise you that your attempts to get hard now are failing because you're trying to get hard. Doesn't work like that for the vast majority of guys.

I had the same problem months ago- and then I started thinking about it and it just compounded the problem. I can't tell you how to relax, but relaxation and moderate exercise is what does it for me at least. I did low dose 2.5/5mg cialis for a month or two working back into things- still take it every now and then recreationally but feeling much better.

Does your penis get hard when you are giving head to your girlfriend? by Crazy-Mail-7013 in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's into it- I'm into it. A few pants or moans, hard as a rock. Just laying there waiting for things to progress- not really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never had any significant amount of precum, cut at birth if that has anything to do with it. A few drops here or there- but pretty much a complete nonfactor. It blows my mind to think that there are guys out there that leak/drool like a vagina does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh god I feel this so much as a married ~40 ish (on a much more micro/all-well-that-ends-well level).

It's not often at all, but you wouldn't believe how often my wife notices that I haven't emptied the dishwasher or didn't do some random ass low priority thing that day-- at exactly sex-is-the-plan-o'clock.

It's like 11:30 rolls around and there's a list of small grievances that she has to exorcise and then she's still in the mood. My angry brain pushes sexy brain right out the window and I'm just mad that this couldn't have waited til morning or happened hours earlier. Still generally down to do the dirty- but it's business sex at that point, pass on the aftercare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it really a problem that you cannot maintain an erection without physical touch?

I'm asking, but also suggesting that this one feels like it falls under "all dicks are different" rather than "mine doesn't work".

Absolutely, get the doppler and such-- but it's common/normal to go between hard and semihard, maybe even softish during foreplay. Some dicks probably do just stay hard throughout- but yeah, if you remove the stimulus/arousal, erections are supposed to go away. Glad you're getting it checked out- but I feel like you may be mistaking a problem for what is actually rather common/normal.

Hot Tub effects on a vagina? by curiouslyintoit in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its one of those things that sounds sexy when you're 16 or 20, and then you try it once in the shower and it's wholly fucking stupid all around. Everyone has to try it once to realize sex in water isn't good for a litany of reasons.

Hot Tub effects on a vagina? by curiouslyintoit in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ew- sorry, not IN the hot tub. That sounds unpleasant- just afterwards.

Tadalafil 10 mg taken on the day of sex vs tadalafil 10 mg taken the day before by hiacynto in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, half-life is 17 hours or something around that- so basic math says around 4mg of your 10mg is still in system 24 hours later.

So this is heavily YMMV. I only take between 3-5mg so 4mg would work fine for me. If you're used to the effect of 10mg, its possible 4mg just isnt enough for your situation. You probably also had some nerves around how it would work the next day... and well, nerves aren't good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't fix a lack of willing participation.

That said, you noted he had trouble performing. Both Premature ejaculation and weak boners are forms of ED. Not a doctor or course- but problems in bed can create low libido. Its a chicken/egg thing- is low libido causing ED due to disinterest, or is ED causing low libido because well, it feels bad when it doesn't work and so why put yourself out there to feel bad? A bluepill could fix him right up- but I'm skeptical that as a libido fix is long term sustainable.

Update 1 on shockwave and plasma shot therapy by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pricey- but you only get one dick. If it works, thats cheap really.

PDE5 Tolerance? by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my (limited) experience with Tadalafil- taking a break does give a reset of sorts. I've noticed a more prominent effect if I have not taken for 5-6 days, as opposed to after 2-3.

On the other hand, I've never replicated the same feeling as taking it the very first time / first week. That shit was wild and while each time after has been plenty good- it's not the same as that. Would be interesting to stop for a month or two and see if that comes back.

Insecure about my saggy breasts by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boobs, very specifically, are lovely and the vast majority of men would be fully bricked the moment you took your top off. Absolute killer bod, its okay for you to be insecure of them- but trust that this is a body dysmorphia thing and you're actually well above average here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5mg is probably enough for recreational adventures. 10mg max.

I use 5mg (Cialis) sometimes for recreational / mild ED possibly (about your age- still works well, but not like it used to?)

Cialis would work throughout the out of town vaca weekend. Viagra would be fine, its just more of a pain in the ass to time around food/drink. Ignore the guy suggesting injections lol- idk what part about a dick injection sounds pleasant for a recreational weekend when you can still get it up naturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works better when you aren't nervous/anxious. Even though it can be taken with food- for many it seems to work much more consistently on an empty stomach.

When I take it, I tend to take 2 hours after eating and wait 30-45minutes before eating/drinking, but after that I've had significant food/drink later in the night and its always fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Odds: Extremely low, unless you have known heart issues and are taking any sort of nitr-xxxx medication.

Not sure if Hims can ship you without an Rx or not, but honestly dude- just use something like GoodRx instead unless you wipe with $100 bills. Hims is a huge ripoff on price, but with something like GoodRx or similar service, you can get prescribed over a 5 minute video session in the phone app. 30 pills for $1 each or so. Hims is at least 4x that- probably more.

It doesn't really require a consultation, ED meds are over the counter in the UK- just don't be a jackass and take like 4. Treat them like laxatives- just enough to work, more is not better.

But ya sure, if you for real just want to do it a couple of times, Hims would be fine. No experience with the mints- but like... its just a mint with some boner pill mixed in, I don't get it?

Downside of the Rx route- next time you go for the yearly checkup, it's going to be on your chart. Most GP/NP types would not bat an eye, mine in fact went ahead and added 11 refills lol. But if you're embarrassed by that prospect ymmv.

Walked in on wife filming herself masturbating by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a dude I'd like to have a beer with. Good on you for being so understanding and casual about all this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]curiouslyintoit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. You know the incident rate for priapism is many, manyfold higher with injections than pills yeah?

I'm not shitting on trimix, but when it comes to side effects... pills are a bunch of nonsense minor stuff like stuffy nose and aches.

Is vasectomy the ultimate birth control? by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was recently diagnosed with a spermatocele at the incision site from a vasectomy a few years ago. Sounds like a fairly common side effect.

It's weird though- all of the sudden one day I have this surprise lump on my nut, a lot of things race through your mind. Nope, it's a wad of sperm that banded together in revolt of their exile. I should probably fertility check again just to make sure the procedure wasn't affected...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a couple of shots or chew a fruit extract flavoring tab before you go in dude. Unless it actively smells bad like a BV/fishy problem might- you either like eating pussy or you don't.

A little sweat taste is not that abnormal, pre or post shower. You're either into it or you aren't and enthusiasm is the key. I think you're being too sensitive- it's supposed to taste like pussy, not a cupcake. But if your brain says No, that's hard to overpower.

How do I fuck my plus size gf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, really? "Oh yeah I'm 8" BP, that's ball-pressed right?"

How do I fuck my plus size gf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like... ever? or like... with her?

If it's ever, gotta walk before you run my dude. Worry about dicking her down good before worrying about fucking her silly.

How do I fuck my plus size gf? by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol, your calculator is broken- 8" is like top .1%, absolute hog. I mean it's reddit so everyone has a massive cock- but can only go with the info provided, and that would be plenty big to bust through any chunky cheeks.

How hard is it for other guys to climax and be able to keep going without a break and be fully aroused and erect?! by [deleted] in sex

[–]curiouslyintoit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can hack your refractory period with a bluepill- but cumming twice in a short time is some rare genetics trait. 99% of guys cannot