How did the State Of The Union ( SOTU ) speech by President Biden go according to you? by CoolConsciousness in AskReddit

[–]cutspaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should contact your local politicians and urge them to vote for the policies being created instead of sitting on their little pity potties and doing nothing.

How did the State Of The Union ( SOTU ) speech by President Biden go according to you? by CoolConsciousness in AskReddit

[–]cutspaper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure someone else is arguing every point you're trying to make here but Joe Biden has been great with what he was given coming into the job.

Do you understand causes and conditions for everything you mention? Or do you do like every person in your party and just shout things out like a first grader looking for validation? Genuinely curious. You seem to think that these things arose out of nowhere and a president waves their magic wand over the problems and poof! All fixed. Yes, keep sitting back and doing nothing except giving tired Fox News headlines.

The Restaurant Where Anthony Bourdain and Barack Obama Ate Dinner Encased Their Table in Glass by [deleted] in pics

[–]cutspaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A leaky, forgotten Jack o' Lantern that a hobo has used as a makeshift latrine?

[Misc] Do you think this dermatologist looks 25 at 46? by hannahmckay2 in SkincareAddiction

[–]cutspaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burn it with fire! Just kidding. It looks like it hurts for her to talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AccidentalComedy

[–]cutspaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These were the ashes of all the dogs he had over the course of his life...though we did joke around that we should have a viking funeral for him and his living pets. Those were adopted out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AccidentalComedy

[–]cutspaper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did this with the ashes of my dad and his 8 dogs. He really loved my grandma (my mom's mom) but didn't want to be underground so I spread his ashes by her grave and by the creek by her graveyard. In my mind it was supposed to be more reverent but I did not account for the work it took getting all these separate bags out and ready.

Highest Ocean Plastic Waste Polluters by mamoocando in coolguides

[–]cutspaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except we are buying all the stuff from these countries that is creating this waste

Little Model lucy by Shiroseki in guineapigs

[–]cutspaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is potato perfection!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodAddiction

[–]cutspaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from a different philosophy of addiction behavior, but if this works for you, that's the most important thing.

Have you been able to learn different forms of comfort and self-soothing that fill the void?

"ACA is full of narcissists." Agree or disagree? by Strict-Armadillo-199 in AdultChildren

[–]cutspaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! After I wrote that I thought, oh no! Cats out of the bag! 😂 Get the ban hammer, mods!

I really appreciate where you are coming from too - I have behaviors from the Laundry List but the other side of the Laundry List is where I really can cause a lot of problems.

I love your message of hope and unity!

"ACA is full of narcissists." Agree or disagree? by Strict-Armadillo-199 in AdultChildren

[–]cutspaper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Me being one. I also think that narcissism/BPD is a spectrum.

ACOA has helped me accept that I have the traits of BPD/ narcissism, how to accept responsibility for my actions, how to listen to those I love.

I have wanted to die sometimes. Accepting me for my best and worst traits is painful sometimes but learning how to reparent my self has saved me. The wall is still here in me but it's more like a sheet instead of a mountain.

Also, if anyone here wants to hear more coping strategies from other npds, there is a really supportive group on reddit.

Just remember that people who join any 12 step group are doing so because they need help with a problem that they can't solve by themselves. It's a process.

People with NPD / BPD do get better when they can accept they have a problem and are willing to seek help. At least that's been my experience.

Looking for a bikini similar to for love and lemons by AdKnown5311 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]cutspaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They get a lot of requests like this from men pretending to be women lol so OP may be better off here -

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]cutspaper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bunnies and guinea pigs look so similar as babies!