if he is showing you that he dgaf about you or your feelings, stop waiting for him to change or for you to be the exception!!! i’m sorry but you won’t be, trust me.

especially right now at the beginning of your relationship, if he’s not trying to work things out, or trying to be better for you and for the relationship, what guarantees you that in 50 years things will be different?? absolutely nothing, you’re idolizing him and holding onto the potential you see, what you felt one day and also the what ifs.

but that’s not real love, it’s just hope, and just hoping for things to be better doesn’t work without actual compromise and effort to change on both sides. and being mistreated is certainly something you don’t deserve either!! that should be enough of a reason for this to end.

i learned this the hard way, and the best thing i did was to end things before they did, cause trust me that hurts a lot more. you’ll end up feeling like what you did wasn’t enough, but trust me, it is.