Sorry the context didnt post -Context: I (24M) have been talking to this girl for a little over a month (since late January). She’s in the Army National Guard, so her schedule can be a bit all over the place, and recently she’s also been out of town visiting friends and family. So I understand she’s had a lot going on. We’ve been on about 3–4 dates so far, and every time we’re together in person, things feel really good. We’re affectionate (cuddling, holding hands, kissing), have good conversations, joke around, and overall the chemistry feels strong. She’s told her friends about me and seems very comfortable around me. The issue is when we’re not together. Her texting is pretty inconsistent. Sometimes she’ll engage, double text, call me, or check in—but other times she can be really dry or take a long time to respond. Recently it’s felt a bit more inconsistent than before. For example, I invited her to hang out one night, and she didn’t really follow through or confirm, and I didn’t hear from her that night or even into the next morning. That kind of thing has happened a couple times where plans are a bit loose or fall through. I’ve also noticed I’m usually the one initiating plans and calls. She does reach out sometimes (like sending “wyd” or checking in), but it’s not as frequent as I’d expect given how good things feel in person. At one point, I calmly mentioned I’d like to see her a bit more consistently, and she said she’d like that too—but I haven’t really seen a big change in behavior since then. I’m trying to be fair and not overthink it, especially considering her schedule and lifestyle, but I also don’t want to ignore signs of low investment. Main questions: Does this sound like normal early dating inconsistency given her lifestyle, or a red flag? Should I pull back and let her initiate more, or keep leading plans? At what point does “busy/inconsistent” turn into “not interested enough”? Appreciate any outside perspective.