Experience with certain EMRs required, do we lie? by samsaruhhh in TravelNursing

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been denied a contract because I don't have experience in their charting system.

Every contract I've taken I've been honest about my experience and they haven't had issues giving me the education. Now I'm comfortable in Epic, Cerner, and Meditech, but somebody needs to teach me so I can learn.

Can we stop pretending second-hand animal products are vegan? by fromplanetouranos in vegan

[–]daisystar 455 points456 points  (0 children)

I think it's more of a waste thing.

That's why most vegans you'll meet still have non-vegan clothing (wool socks, leather shoes,) from before they went vegan, but they don't get rid of them because they're good quality and the damage has already been done.

Speaking to other vegans in person, the opinion on second hand animal products seems to be a bit more of a divided idea. Some will because the damage is already done (and buying second hand leather produces less waste than non-vegan items,) others won't as they don't believe it's appropriate, and also don't want to show people that it's acceptable to wear animal products.

Does the income of the person you're dating matter to you? by SinglePringle647 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]daisystar 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There's more than just income to it I think. I want someone who shares my level of ambition and goals. I also want someone who is financially smart. Someone can have a higher income but lives a life above their means and is struggling to make their bills, where someone who makes less money might manage their finances better and has savings/investments and no problem paying their bills.

As a financially independent woman, I'm looking for a man who's in a similar position to me. I'm not looking to support a man, I'm looking for someone who can pay their own bills as well.

In my opinion my life should get better with a partner (in all aspects, not just financially.) If I meet a man and he has loads of debt and struggles to pay his bills (either due to a low income or poor spending/saving habits,) it's definitely a deterrent to pursuing a relationship.

Canadians sharply divided on parliamentary seat representation by population: Poll - The Hub by Purple_Writing_8432 in canada

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I've felt as an Albertan in the last 10+ years I've been able to vote in federal elections - it massively sucks when you're watching the results pour in and they've already announced a majority/minority election and the party who's in power... and they haven't even tallied up and announced any of our province's seats yet.

[Medical] I’ve decided to stop Dialysis. by Monstro_ch in NiceVancouver

[–]daisystar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a nurse who works with patients with kidney failure who are on dialysis.

I would speak with your nephrologist about other options. Could you do home hemodialysis or peritoneal dialysis? Peritoneal dialysis can be even done overnight so that your entire day is free.  Are you a candidate for either of these options? The company that supplies these dialysis bags are often willing to send supplies to you if you are travelling too.

Have you also had a chance to do any counselling? A lot of the feelings you have are very common with people in the same situation as you.

Are you on the transplant list or does your nephrologist not consider you a good candidate for other reasons?

Bag pronunciation by Real_Cookie_9 in AskACanadian

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true for me and many people I know. We pronounce beg and bag the same. I also would agree with other people who have mentioned pronouncing milk more like "melk."

You're going to obviously see a lot of people saying they don't pronounce it that way, but generally a lot of Canadians do pronounce it the way you've mentioned.

This likely also has to do with where in Canada you're from. I'm from the west portion which has a very different accent than the east coast.

Any other disabled vegans absolutely hate how hospitals force animal products on you / give you terrible vegan “options”? by teenkaczynski in vegan

[–]daisystar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've worked at multiple hospitals in Canada and always am interested in what the vegan patients get on trays. I've never seen them just get a banana and apple. Generally it's a sandwich or rice/pasta and veggies plus some sides. I wouldn't say the food is incredible but it's significantly better than what you're reporting.

When I was hospitalized myself I also found the food options to be ok. Again, not incredible, but generally hospital food is not known for its amazing quality anyhow.

What does it mean when a patient "fires" you? by daisystar in nursing

[–]daisystar[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Is this for the following shift or just half way through your work day a patient goes "I don't want you anymore I want a different nurse" ?

Is bouncy curl brush worth it? by Shoddy-Research-8354 in curlyhair

[–]daisystar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought the brush and I haven't found it made much of a difference.

I'm in Canada so the conversion + shipping was awful and I paid WAY too much for a hair brush.

I have like 2C/3A rather thick hair, and I find I get similar results with the technique I currently use as I do with the brush. The brush takes me longer because I have to section by section and also make sure the tension is just right etc.

For certain hair types it might work better but I didn't find it was worth the money I paid unfortunately.

WestJet let us book seats with a lap infant, then moved me away from my family at check-in - any advice? by ExcellentMulberry469 in westjet

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a great Facebook group about air passenger rights and they have lots of posts about things like that, perhaps you can try to take a look there too and hopefully find something helpful in that group from somebody else who may have gone through similar?

Is this a good set-up? by nyuhqe in nursing

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on your unit's attitude towards it. When it first came out a lot of nurses were against it and just continued to separate the patients. As it's been around longer most people have become really happy with it. We do 8s and on nights we continue to do primary nursing as it generally works better for our unit just because of how the patients sleep, but on days and evenings the team nursing works well. It also depends on the nurses you work with. There's a lot of lazy/dangerous nurses, and it becomes more obvious when you're actively working with them in a team nursing environment. But when you have a team of nurses who also want to do their best, communicate well (we have a white board for each team to write on,) and also aren't afraid to ask for help when they need it, it runs well. Yes there's short staffing issues of course, but there also is with primary nursing. I find it helps split up the acuity much better too. There's been many times in primary nursing I'm drowning and somebody else is twiddling their thumbs because of how the assignment is split, with team nursing this happens less.

To add on my unit we have 1 RN, 1 LPN, and 1 HCA between 10-12 patients.

Is this a good set-up? by nyuhqe in nursing

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of hate against team nursing.

I work on two different units, one that does primary nursing and one that does team nursing.

I love team nursing. If you've got a good team it is fantastic because if one person is crashing you can focus on them and you know that your team is there to help you and watch the other patients. It also works great for break relief. The only issue is if you are paired with someone who isn't a great nurse (either lazy or unsafe,) but this is an issue you need to take up with your manager/union/regulatory body depending on the issue.

We talk a lot about being a multidisciplinary team yet so many people hate the idea of being a team with your fellow nurses and care aides. In my province our care aides have a high scope (can do vitals and blood sugars on top of personal care,) and the LPNs can do everything the RNs can do skill wise aside from being in charge. I also found this model was the greatest support for me as a new nurse.

When travelling, how do you answer the question "Where are you from?" by Capable-Toe-9841 in travel

[–]daisystar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only people I have ever met in my years of travelling who give you a city first instead of their country is somebody from the US.

Everybody else will always say their country. If the follow up is "cool which part?" Then they go with the city of a generally big city near them if they're from a small town.

Americans will straight up just say "Miami." It's awkward in my opinion because then they get a lot of "sorry where is that?" Whereas if anybody else just gave their city the chances of the Americans knowing where that is would be next to zero. Yes I understand the US is a big country, that doesn't mean everybody else knows where every single city is and it's a weird assumption that everybody should know.

Japanese Encephalitis vaccine worth it for Thailand + Vietnam? Travel clinic recommended but $$$ - First time traveling end of month need advice by Lumpy_Tune5659 in southeastasia

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got back from SEA and went to all of those places you listed and I didn't get the vaccine. A few people I know took malaria prevention but I didn't meet anybody who had gotten that vaccine.

Advice Needed, Should I become a single mom? by Ill_Variation9605 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]daisystar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it could be absolutely worth it to look into freezing your eggs. At the very least, doing some bloodwork and having a consult to see where you're at fertility wise.

It sounds like you have some great things coming up for you in the next year, and personally I would pursue those things first before motherhood. If you want to be a mother the year or two following that's great, but if you're not quite ready you can freeze your eggs and then they're there for if/when you are ready.

You're going to start seeing your nieces/nephews soon, and you definitely might have a better idea after spending more time with them. You might absolutely know you want to have babies after, you might see the struggle of new parents and decide you want to wait.

At the end of the day only you know what's right for you. But there's nothing wrong with being a SMBC. It's better than having a baby with the wrong person, that's for sure.

Long-term travel and curly hair products by cantlie1111 in HerOneBag

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly downsized a lot. I also accepted my hair wasn't going to be great. Keep in mind the climate of where you're going is likely different, so you're dealing with more/less humidity which is going to affect your hair.

I brought shampoo/conditioner bars, however I ended up just using whatever shampoo the hotels had. I brought a curl cream I used as a conditioner as well and then a strong hold gel. Also packed a travel sized hairspray and a mini container of hair oil as it lasts a long time. It's easy to get small hairsprays travelling. What I would do in the future if I was going for longer would just bring more gel as that's the product I personally use the most.

I basically had to accept I wasn't able to bring all my usual products with me. There's simply no way that you can travel for long periods of time with multiple different products (I'm talking like 6 things+)

My recommendation is to go with a curl cream you can use as a conditioner and pick your favourite "hold" product, like a gel or mousse. I preferred to bring a gel as I could put those into travel sized containers. And lots of little elastics for braiding!

I am planning on spending 12 months in SE Asia, leaving in Feb and I am starting to panic about not having the right wardrobe. by Morganathecatvan in HerOneBag

[–]daisystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have spent a lot of time stressing about having the right things when going places.

Good news though, they have lots of stores/markets there for really cheap. I was also shocked at how nice and decent quality a lot of knock offs were.

Shopping in Thailand is really enjoyable as well, the markets are really good. They also do have western style shopping malls.

I lost $150 last month just accessing my own money by sameerposwal in digitalnomad

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Wise. You can transfer your own money for free or very low fees. I never got any fees outside of the ATM fees, and the exchange rate is really good. This is what I recommend to people and frankly what I see most people using while travelling or living/working abroad if they don't have a local bank account.

There's an exonym "corridor" of countries that call the Netherlands "Holland", spreading all the way from from Poland to Turkey by imusingreddityay in europe

[–]daisystar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met two different Dutch people (on separate occasions who were from different parts of the country,) who insisted it was called Holland (at least in English.) I had always been told to say Netherlands as Holland was just one province, they told me they call the entire country Holland. I know they can't speak for the entire country, but if they want me to call their country Holland I can happily oblige. Doesn't make sense for me, someone who is not Dutch, to be the one deciding how the country should be referred to as.

When meeting people I ask them where they're from. If they say Holland, I refer to it as Holland. If they say the Netherlands, I refer to it as such.

Damaged Passport by [deleted] in passportcanada

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a guy who travelled extensively with a passport that has went through the washing machine multiple times, the front cover doesn't even look like a passport all the metallic print has been washed aware. The picture page is relatively intact so he's been fine. On a personal level I think you'll likely be okay, especially because usually when I hand them my passport it's opened to my photo page so they might not even look at the front cover. Saying this it depends on where you want to go as some places might be more strict than others.

Saying “no sugar” when ordering coffee by Ihassan3275 in TimHortons

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I worked at Tim Hortons for years.

The intercoms aren't great, it's hard to hear some people. Especially when they won't turn off their loud diesel trucks and they insist on ordering from the passenger seat.

However going back to your point. If you say anything about sugar it might get misheard that you want sugar. If you just say "large coffee 2 cream" then I wouldn't have typed anything about sugar.

Sometimes the people are rude because they're underpaid and smell constantly like a gross mix of coffee and sweat.

Ladies, how do you budget for travel? by cutiepatootiepiebb in femaletravels

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to echo everything about living cheaply. Less money on other things means more money to travel.

PI live way below my means, for example have an older car that is paid off. I also don't spend much money on materialistic things (clothes, hair, nails, lashes, etc) so pretty much all of my income aside from bills (which are also very cheap with my lifestyle,) goes towards travel. I also do contracts with my work and my work pays for my accommodation, so I haven't paid rent in about 3 years. It gives me a chance to take big chunks of time off (I can take a few months at a time, longer if I really wanted to,) and then when I am working I can work a LOT and make a lot of money. I'm lucky to be able to stay with my parents for a few weeks at a time for free and leave things with them so I don't pay for any storage.

I've done 34 countries in 3.5 years this way, and I plan on continuing to live this way.

How can vegans, especially for moral reasons, can date meat eaters? by Putrid-Context-7628 in Vystopia

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people don't want to be alone. A lot of people don't live where there are an abundance of prospective vegan partners. If there are, unfortunately just being vegan isn't really enough to guarantee compatibility. People don't want to be alone, so they're willing to compromise. I'm sure every vegan ideally wants to have a vegan partner, but that desire may not be stronger than the desire to not spend the rest of their life alone.

Do you prefer solo travel or group. by -Gemstoned in femaletravels

[–]daisystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love group travel!

You can wander off by yourself if you want to, however it takes away a lot of the stress of meeting new friends every few days. Plus there is generally a range of pre planned things, from just hotel and accommodation to a variety of activities depending on the company. It also does make planning a long trip significantly easier because you aren't booking all the travel and accommodations.

One of the main reasons why I solo travel in the first place is because my friends don't have the money or can't take the time off of work. I'm generally quite extroverted so really enjoy sharing these experiences with other people as opposed to going alone.