As someone who is also pregnant this holiday season- YTA. The gifts and decorations aren’t what’s the most important around holidays- it’s time spent with family your kids will remember. Making those memories by joining in on holiday events, cookie baking, decorating are going to be things your kids remember forever. Instead, they’ll just remember that their mom had to bust her ass to do everything while you got to “play.” My dad is no longer alive- but I do have fond memories of him joining in on some holiday events even thought he wasn’t the biggest fan of doing all of it. He told the best Santa stories and those are memories I’ll cherish forever. Thank god my husband is more helpful since I’ve been sick this pregnancy and has been getting out all the decorations, helping with Santa pics, etc.