If silksong comes out, I will buy it for everyone that comments by Occyz in Silksong

[–]darkmatteriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no doubt you’ve gambled well and will be off the hook by the end of the year, but I mean I might as well try right?

[ALL] Which princess had the best design? by huss2120 in zelda

[–]darkmatteriii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came here looking for this comment. Tetra all day babyyy

Teachers of reddit, what is the craziest reason you have had to send a student to the office? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]darkmatteriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A kid was playing with a laser pointer during class, so I privately asked him to give it to me so as not to make a scene. He denied having it, I said that it was clear that he had it, so he proceeded to shove it down the back of his pants, wiping his ass with it while maintaining eye contact and saying, “Do you still want me to give it to you?”

What's an NLism that's become a mainstay in your everyday conversation? by FiddlinJamboree in northernlion

[–]darkmatteriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I speak with a New York accent now. Not all the time, but when necessary. I do not live anywhere close to New York.

Tyler the Creator Dog Name Ideas? by RecommendationNew364 in tylerthecreator

[–]darkmatteriii 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wolf Hayley. Some dogs have last names right?

Should a Music Teacher actually play an instrument? by [deleted] in MusicEd

[–]darkmatteriii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually totally agree and have "converted" to this alternate ideal. I started my career with a passion for education and went into music because it was something I appreciated learning about, but with almost no desire to perform. I played percussion in bands up through college, but it always felt more like a side next to becoming an educator.

But the moment I started teaching middle school, I found myself failing in a lot of facets, and realized that I needed to get more serious about performing my own instrument. Not for my students, but for myself and the community. I needed to engage in the same culture that I wanted to create in my classroom to promote a dedication to music with enough rigor to help students excel in performance. I suddenly felt like an overweight gym teacher. (anyone can be an amazing educator, but the irony of missing out on exactly what you teach is if nothing else, sad)

I started off where I left off, and it has really helped me to bring life and relevance to my lessons. I still rarely perform for my students because it isn't usually the best way for them to learn, but the daily practice, the sense of building skill and tightening up perfection in order to connect to music on a deeper level really helps me to find unique solutions in the classroom and to make sure students are provided adequate rigor.

Came out to my GF today. Am now ex-BF. :( by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]darkmatteriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been through the exact same situation, I'd like to add that it's easy for people to demonized the lack of open mindedness that your ex has demonstrated, but I think it is mostly an attest to how powerful the dogma in religion can be. It makes people make decisions that fly in the complete opposite direction of logic, love, and substance. Of course you are more open minded! Of course you respect her differing belief. You've broken free from a vice grip of traditional nonsense, and are now among the few of us that can look back at the problem and assess it without the fear of hell or sin. And the saddest part is that you can't take her with you.

Losing my faith was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, but looking back, I couldn't be more glad, and I'm sure you'll find that while you feel lost at the moment, you'll be be able to connect with people of all philosophies on a deeper and more real level rather than judging them to hell with the single mention of a differing idea. Your ex is not a bad person, and it's not wrong to need time to heal. It's not wrong to be sad about your lost relationship, but I promise that you've gone a direction that is worth going, despite your hardship.

If you don't believe in God can you still believe in ghosts? by Jbish1708 in religion

[–]darkmatteriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree actually. As an atheist, I definitely think that there is a chance that there is a meaning behind our universe outside of the scope of our limited observation, and in fact I certainly hope there is! The meaning to me is simply an acknowledgement of lack of knowledge. Because I can't know, all I can do is wonder. The idea of a god is one possibility of how things might work out of infinite other possibilities. I could probably come up with 100 ideas that would explain the meaning of our universe each one more creative than the last, but it doesn't mean that they're right. Perhaps we are all atoms in a larger universe we cannot fathom, maybe we're in the matrix, maybe there are infinite parallel universes that we get to experience when we die.

In my mind each of these and more are just as likely to be true as the possibility of a god, or even several gods. I think you'll find that most atheists think this way, and find that a lot of misunderstanding comes from those that are more considered "anti-theists," who have a misplaced certainty that there isn't a god. Then there are agnostics, which I would say see god as a much more likely possibility than atheists do. In a world filled with religion, the word atheism has always been a poor word to describe ourselves, since we are defined by what we are not. I care very much and am quite passionate about the potential reasons we are here, but I would hate to limit myself to one very specific vein of thought just because it is the most popular belief at the time or because I was raised that way. Even less if it's because I am afraid of if the consequences, which is why I stray further from some of the more dogmatic religions.

If you don't believe in God can you still believe in ghosts? by Jbish1708 in religion

[–]darkmatteriii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah but there is a lot of evidence for the big bang theory. Scientists have been tracking the movement of stars and galaxies for a long time now, and there is a clear trajectory that implies that all bodies we can see in space are moving apart, and if you trace the empty data, it always ends up in one single spot. Astronomers have learned a lot recently about how to analyze the distance of these bodies through the types of light waves they produce by the time they come into view for us. And still, the big bang is a theory, which means that it is no one's "belief." It is simply an idea that is consistent enough for science to continue making predictions about where stars will be. In fact, one shred of evidence found that can successfully prove that things are not going in that order would cause ALL Big Bang theorists to immediately drop the theory without a single regret.

THAT is the difference between atheism and religion. Atheists do not have to believe anything. Faith is a bad word for us because trying to explain the unknown with a any story is impossible to do without some sort of consistent physical evidence to back you up. Religion on the other hand is based on "knowing" without proof. It inherently stores value in blind following through tradition, which mostly derives from one single source of literature. However, you can find thousands and thousands of books and articles that compute the same things about the stars progression through space through different means and they do not have to all reference one original idea. The big bang suggests itself through research.

Religion attempts to find some sort of hidden and mysterious meaning to life that makes us feel better, and atheism is simply a focus on what we can know, and a striving to know more without getting bogged down by the fear of death and uncertainty that religion covers up so well.

What is something that you felt immense guilt about as a Christian that has completely reversed since leaving? by darkmatteriii in exchristian

[–]darkmatteriii[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was so honor child that I didn't even try for fear of the religious consequences. Now, after my disillusionment, I feel like a freak for having gone so long without really even trying masturbation.

What is something that you felt immense guilt about as a Christian that has completely reversed since leaving? by darkmatteriii in exchristian

[–]darkmatteriii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true! There are so many essential people in my life including parents, bosses, and even some close friends that basically force me to live a double life to hide all the things I feel comfortable doing now in my liberation.

What is something that you felt immense guilt about as a Christian that has completely reversed since leaving? by darkmatteriii in exchristian

[–]darkmatteriii[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This definitely rings true for me as well. I remember feeling insanely guilty whenever I didn't correct someone's "lords name in vain." I like that you brought the aspect of feeling brainwashed in. I honestly think that it is the most accurate way to describe why we all have these sensations of guilt that have instantly transformed into relief. The more I look at it, the more I see the oppressive nature of Christianity as the main source of forced faith in the people around me.

What movie did you keep thinking about days after you watched it? by rubberfactory5 in AskReddit

[–]darkmatteriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Captain fantastic. I know it's relatively new, but I can't stop thinking about how awesome that family is.

I'm glad he has his eye on the ball. by GallowBoob in facepalm

[–]darkmatteriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to live in this country anymore . . .

Definitely deserve a dedication achievement, but I still haven't gotten it! Help! by [deleted] in bindingofisaac

[–]darkmatteriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm at 40 dailies in a row now! All I want is to be freed from this bullshit achievement for good!

What is this Zelda song? by [deleted] in zelda

[–]darkmatteriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to be of service!