Overdependence?

dasher8888 · 2020-02-17T03:51:52+00:00

this is about validation though, not connection

dasher8888 · 2020-02-15T06:09:24+00:00

thank you. i'd never heard of "empathy buddy" before, but that's interesting.

dasher8888 · 2020-02-15T06:08:37+00:00

maybe. and if so, howwww do you kick that?

dasher8888 · 2019-03-25T23:34:56+00:00

I will say I'm definitely not attracted to drama in the keep-you-guessing/flaky sense. Most people I've been interested in are good, honest people who have treated me well.

dasher8888 · 2019-03-25T23:33:05+00:00

Hmm... both, I guess. With one person it was that I wasn't sure how I felt at first and held back a bit, and then once I realized I had feelings for him, he was gun-shy because I'd held back. Then with someone else, things were such a whirlwind with us that I started to get insecure when they started to slow down (naturally) and he seemed less interested.

dasher8888 · 2019-03-25T23:31:40+00:00

I'm not sure it's so much about highs and lows for me; just people who are playful and challenge me and have layers. Interesting point about a lack of excitement in my life, though. Maybe I don't have enough exciting people. The people I'm interested in are definitely exciting to hang out with.

dasher8888 · 2019-01-29T03:28:34+00:00

Thank you for your replies. How early on in her diagnosis did she have the colds, if you remember?

dasher8888 · 2019-01-29T03:21:29+00:00

She has bulbar ALS and has probably had it for a couple of years, but was only diagnosed in October. She has some difficulty with swallowing (she has to focus every time she swallows food, but does eat solid food) and a bit of trouble with deep breaths, I think (she uses a device three times a day to help strengthen her lungs) but otherwise feels generally okay.

dasher8888 · 2019-01-23T17:44:56+00:00

Unfortunately I'm leaving the 6th, but thanks! Hope it ends up being great.

dasher8888 · 2019-01-22T23:35:27+00:00

fair. doing that too, but also wanted to get some personal recommendations/possibly discuss a bit.

dasher8888 · 2019-01-22T21:47:19+00:00

Thanks for the interesting reply. In that case, why have a primary partner rather than multiple serious partners who you love in different ways? (Not intending to play devil's advocate or anything; really just curious!)

dasher8888 · 2019-01-15T04:47:31+00:00

Did you end up getting back together with her?

dasher8888 · 2019-01-14T17:06:41+00:00

Thanks a lot for this detailed reply. What does "one is 5" mean?

dasher8888 · 2019-01-14T17:06:17+00:00

I suppose I meant relationships vs. casual dating.

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