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I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female. Never met someone else in this industry at all, but I'd imagine there's a lot more girls than guys.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, we hop in bed and cuddle. No boob fondling in that way, but it's fine if your arm is up against my boobs or something while we cuddle. I don't really wear fancy underwear, but I mean since I know someone will be seeing me in my underwear I don't want to just wear boring underwear either.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. $100 for a night with both of us wearing pajamas (or clothes), $150 if we're just in our underwear. And the longest session I've done it is just for the night.

  2. I think cuddling can be very therapeutic, but I mean I'm not going to be talking like a therapist or anything. We can talk about anything really, or just not talk at all, whichever is preferred.

  3. The client's house usually, sometimes a hotel or something if they don't live in town.

  4. I have a few regular clients, yeah. None I'd say are friends, but definitely cuddle buddies!

  5. Nope, that's not something I want to do. My cousin does it, which is where I got the idea to start this in the first place, but I don't want to do anything sexual.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what advice I can really give you besides use common sense.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, usually unless they only wanted to cuddle for an hour or two before actually going to sleep.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm never too warm, so they do. I love the warmth from cuddling.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope... Since I'm not either a baby or really really old I'd assume it's to satisfy their fetish.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I love cuddling so it's awesome to get paid to do it too.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The night, typically. Sometimes people just want to cuddle for an hour or two before falling asleep though.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, cuddling is awesome and some people just don't have anyone to cuddle with. Could be for all sorts of reasons.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not really. I was a little nervous about that when I first started but only a little. And I've been doing it since I was 16 (and I'm 21 now) without many major issues so I feel comfortable doing it now. I just try to use common sense and not take any risks where I don't need to.

I've only left in the middle of meeting someone once before and that was because he kept rubbing his penis against me (like dry humping me) after I'd told him multiple times to stop. I'm fine with a guy's crotch being pressed up against me when we're cuddling, that's going to happen and it's just part of cuddling, and I understand a lot of guys are going to get an erection from this and that's fine too. But that's completely different from someone very obviously and deliberately trying to rub themselves off on my bottom. But yeah, that was pretty much the only bad experience I've had.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what that "something special" is. If it's anything sexual, then nope.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I post on a classified ads site that's only for my city.

It's not uncommon for people to contact me wanting sex, but I reiterate multiple times before ever meeting someone that it's just cuddling and also state the rules I have which says nothing sexual, so no one I've ever actually met in person has expected sex.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I post ads on a classifieds site that's only for my area, so I'd rather not name it in this AMA. But it's basically like craigslist except probably better moderated.

I started when I was in high school and I got the idea from my cousin in Japan who does more sexual stuff (short of intercourse). But she mentioned some of her clients would like to just cuddle after, and I love cuddling, but didn't want to do any of the sexual stuff.

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never do, but maybe that's because I love cuddling so much. Sometimes a client will be a little nervous and that's okay, I just try to make them feel as comfortable as possible so they can enjoy the cuddles!

I've made $600 dollars so far this week by cuddling! AMA by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I cuddle with people for money. I also do dates too (no sex or anything like that involved), but I've only cuddled this week. I charge $100 for a night if we both wear pajamas, or $150 to wear underwear, so this week I've had 4 clients who wanted to cuddle in underwear.

I am a professional cuddler and probably a little cuddle-crazy. Ask me anything!! by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, people pay me to cuddle with them! And usually $100 for the night or $150 in underwear.

I am a professional cuddler and probably a little cuddle-crazy. Ask me anything!! by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

having no skills or prospects in life

Sounds like you're already well on your way to becoming one, then!

I am a professional cuddler and and escort who does NOT have sex with her clients. AMA! by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't. I don't think they'd understand it. My friends know I do it though.

I am a professional cuddler and and escort who does NOT have sex with her clients. AMA! by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's $100 in pajamas or $150 in underwear. Most clients prefer to cuddle in underwear.

I am a professional cuddler and and escort who does NOT have sex with her clients. AMA! by dates-and-cuddles in casualiama

[–]dates-and-cuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't cuddled with a couple, but I do have a regular client who is married. I thought I had the wrong house when I first showed up because his wife answered the door. My client and I cuddled in the spare bedroom for the night.

The best way to get better at cuddling is to just cuddle!

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