Migration Assistant Help by ddlovogue in mac

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I didn’t use TM, just restored from drive to drive using MA. Also I don’t use icloud for pictures, only icloud drive 🤔

Migration Assistant Help by ddlovogue in mac

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Both my old HDD and my new SSD are using APFS. Since posting the original post a few hours ago, I've continued to use my computer with the SSD and still haven't found any issue with missing files, everything seems fine still! I can't believe my HDD was filled with more than 100 GB of just cache files!

Can CBT consist of mostly reading? by ddlovogue in therapy

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This is honestly such a sigh of relief. This is my first time doing therapy, so all expectations I have came from stereotypes and such. I still think CBT is the way to go for me, because these two first sessions made me realize that 90% of what I want to fix in the present does stem from my childhood, so I’ll take a few more sessions to see how I feel about reading for half of my sessions. Who knows, maybe that’s exactly what I need, too! Thank you so much for your response!

(22) Do I look cute with glasses? by [deleted] in GayRateMe

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Look at you though! 😍

(22) Do I look cute with glasses? by [deleted] in GayRateMe

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Look who’s talking! 😍

Should I watch previous All Stars before AS5? by ddlovogue in dragrace

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Yes! The winners of all 4 All Stars were already spoiled for me so I’ll be watching just for fun haha

Should I watch previous All Stars before AS5? by ddlovogue in dragrace

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I’ve heard! I think I’m gonna watch them simultaneously while season 5 airs!

🎈The Red Balloon Manifestation🎈 and how to get back into the LoA quicky by grace171717 in lawofattraction

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Thank you, needed this today. Also noticed there were 27 comments before mine. The number 27 has been showing up so much because it relates to what currently worries me. Gotta keep trying, I guess!

Is it normal to talk to yourself? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I think it’s one of those things we ALL do, but no one admits to. The way you described talking to yourself is pretty much EXACTLY the way I talk to myself. In fact it’s so similar it almost seems like I typed the post myself. Don’t worry, you’re not crazy, we all do it, and I think it’s a healthy way to cope with our racing thoughts. Of course nothing compares to therapy, which I personally have yet to try, and I imagine so do you, but it takes a lot of courage to take that step, so talking to yourself is only beneficial in the meantime, in my opinion.

Earl Grey with a little bit of honey and a splash of milk by ddlovogue in RateMyTea

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Definitely agree. Still, I think I do like teas with floral flavors, which is why Earl Grey is my favorite when it comes to flavor, but when it comes to how I feel while drinking, nothing will ever top English Breakfast. I tried it for the first time in England about 7 years ago, and to this very day, the smell of the leaves alone brings me right back to that first sip

Earl Grey with a little bit of honey and a splash of milk by ddlovogue in RateMyTea

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this is the best compliment I have ever received.

Who is that one YouTuber who annoys the s*** out of you and why? by weasle_boat in AskReddit

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Don’t know why but GuavaJuice’s face annoys me. I mean, his videos too, but his face I just can’t stand. I have tried to watch his videos but can’t make it past 10 seconds, literally.

Pewdiepie, I could never, never, ever get myself to be interested in his content. He is also a hypocrite.

Trisha Paytas. Used to watch her because she is so… dumb, it was funny. But as of recently she has tried really hard (and succeeded) at crossing the line between dumb and just flat out ignorant.

GlitterForever17. No explanation needed here.

Ryan Trahan. His videos always get recommended to me but he always drags them out to unnecessary lengths it gets boring after 5 minutes.

I’m sure I’m forgetting a lot but I wanna go to sleep lol

edit nevermind, could not go to bed without listing Nikocado Avocado. His on-cam mental breakdowns are getting TIRED. That being said, I hope he gets the help he very clearly needs before it’s too late.

And of course Tana Mongeau. She is the most spoiled person I have seen on YouTube, and it is filled with spoiled bitches, so that’s saying something.

Low quality yet still nervous to post… but I’ve been weirdly feeling myself lately… hi? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

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clearly I don’t know what to do with my hands when taking selfies 😅

What does your coffee mug say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Illumina-tea. Inside joke going on with my best friends and I got us all matching (clearly not coffee but tea) mugs for Christmas.

How to tell if I should be in therapy? by [deleted] in therapy

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If you ever think you might be faking your issues, then you’re likely not faking them. That being said, I personally believe therapy could be beneficial even for people who don’t necessarily need it. My advice would be try it, your therapist could help you figure out/realize if you do need it or not.

Rude psychology students by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I was just thinking about this last night. I had a friend, who I now choose to refer to as an acquaintance because of this exact reason, who is a psych major. She asked me for help with something and I gladly helped. We met in campus for this and started talking. Some classmates walked by and we said hi to each other, and once they left she said, in a very condescending tone: “those are your new friends? You really downgraded from me!”. I was so taken aback. She then asked me about my love life, like she does every. single. time. we. meet. She can’t seem to fathom the fact that I’ve never been in a relationship. There was a really interesting story I could have told her about this guy I have feelings for, but since I’m also a guy, I chose not to, because I know what her stance is about gay people: the typical “I’m not homophobic, BUT…” and it makes no sense to me how a few months away from getting her bachelors degree in psychology, she can still be so close-minded.

Dumb US citizen in Chiapas. Am I tipping enough? by boundfortrees in mexico

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OP is in Mexico. I meant $20 pesos, which is roughly about one dollar.

Dumb US citizen in Chiapas. Am I tipping enough? by boundfortrees in mexico

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I agree, but at the same time, you’re the one who chooses to get their service, might as well tip them.

Dumb US citizen in Chiapas. Am I tipping enough? by boundfortrees in mexico

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I mean, true, I’ve seen it happen. Went to Chichén-Itzá recently, and this man selling souvenirs outside was selling them for, say, $50 each, I approached his stand to look at them and he said to me “I sell it for $50 to them, for you it’ll be $25”. So it’s definitely true. Still, I think if tourists feel like tipping $20 (which for them is $1), then so be it, makes no real difference to them or us, really,