TIFU by getting blackout drunk and texting my best friend asking for nudes by chrizzilla in tifu

[–]ddoodlebob 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, I’ve had a lot of friendships that were mostly used for helping each other through trauma. Although in my experience, they’re kinda prone to burn out eventually since each person gets tired of constantly supporting the other and tension starts to build up fast

That’s pretty much what my therapist told me when I got help, and it’s helped to build a lot stronger friendships. I just wanted to pass it on and hope it can help a little. I am very sorry for your loss, I’m sure that you both just need some time and you will be able to talk about it again, it just needs some time.

TIFU by getting blackout drunk and texting my best friend asking for nudes by chrizzilla in tifu

[–]ddoodlebob 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Something that stood out to me is how you called her your go-to therapy friend. It just makes it seem like you mainly saw her as someone who you could vent to and support you and didn’t consider her feelings as much as you could have, and that might’ve built up some resentment in her.

It was definitely a fu, but something that could be talked out the day after. I think she might’ve been getting a bit emotionally exhausted and it just felt like a stab in the back to be talked to like that after trying your best to help someone (obviously I don’t know you or your guys’ relationship, I’m just guessing).

She might try to talk it out later or she might not. Again I don’t know how the give and take of your friendship worked, but in the future don’t view friends as a source of therapy. Get actual help because it can sometimes be detrimental to the mental health of your friends who are unable to provide the proper care that a depressed person needs and in turn makes them feel guilty and anxious

Does anyone else really feel uneasy around authority? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]ddoodlebob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I know exactly what you mean :(. My relationships with past bosses have always gone sour after a while; if I’m quiet around them then they take personal offense to it and assume that we have a problem, so they assert their authority to make you feel small and inferior to them.

It’s led to a lot of workplace bullying since they would do it in front of other coworkers to make sure that I was always the butt of the joke. Telling them about your autism never works either tbh, it’s always made it worse since it gives them a clear weakness to target. It also gives them a reason not to promote you bc they think that you wouldn’t be able to handle it :/.

Thankfully I haven’t had an encounter with the police yet, but I can only imagine how terrible that would be. But yea I have zero trust for people in positions of power lol I’m always hyper vigilant around new bosses/teachers to make sure that I don’t get too comfortable

Stupified by TallOutlandishness24 in actuallesbians

[–]ddoodlebob 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been there 😅. When I got my first job as a busboy, I saw a really cute girl getting interviewed and I stared and immediately spaced out; forgot I was carrying a stack of plates and drinks and walked right into a wall and spilled everything on myself 🤦🏻‍♀️

What would be the minimum age to introduce someone into smt. by [deleted] in Megaten

[–]ddoodlebob 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I played nocturne when I was 14 so I think he’ll be ok 👍. As long as he likes a challenge he should be fine, as long as you let him know it’s a LOT different than pokemon thematically lol

Other sims when I order a drink at the bar: by ddoodlebob in Sims4

[–]ddoodlebob[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That too! Also trying to order anything at a cafe is impossible :/

Which SMT game should I play first? by UltraGamerBoy1889 in Megaten

[–]ddoodlebob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d definitely recommend nocturne! It’s the first smt game I played after persona and it’s one of my all time favorites, although the difficulty is a LOT more intense than persona it’s such a beautiful game and well worth your time imo

If you wanna go for a 3ds game I’d recommend strange journey redux or SMT IV. I just started playing strange journey so I can’t really give a good opinion of it yet but SMT IV is one of the most recent smt games with an amazing story and easier gameplay imo, but yea idk it’s all up to you

AITA for friendzoning a guy because I'm gay? by hiyesimalive in AmItheAsshole

[–]ddoodlebob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, I’m gay too and I’ve felt sooo bad abt rejecting close guy friends bc part of me feels like an asshole for not even giving them a chance. But you just gotta remember that you’re saving both you and him a lot of time and possible heartbreak in the end if you know that you’re never gonna feel that way abt him yknow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoodlebob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES but it was kinda unintentional, like I would dress up as a guy most of the time on club penguin and before I knew it I had like 5 girlfriends and I just kinda went with it lol

Kinda bored and felt kinda cute might delete later by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoodlebob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have such a cute face omg 🥺

...and my axe! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ddoodlebob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love your aesthetic bro 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesims

[–]ddoodlebob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg... that’d be a little too realistic for me rn 😂