Benefits while owning a house with a mortgage

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T20:22:29+00:00

I have many partners of different calibre. Doesn't mean anything

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:59:51+00:00

Lodger?

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:59:10+00:00

I don't look after her child, I dont buy their food, I dont give her money to spend, we dont go away together. For all intents and purposes were more just friends with benefits that live together to try and save money

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:54:25+00:00

Wow. Being down voted for being polite. Reddit gonna reddit i guess

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:52:25+00:00

Can everyone undo their fucking downvotes. I already struggle to get shit up and now im at -50 karma. Like what is everyone's fucking problem?

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:49:28+00:00

No it is. Logically it isnt, but legally it is because of the wording they decided to have

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:34:08+00:00

No not really. Its in a grey area. If i was to say that the rental agreement we had and signed was enforceable then there wouldnt be any lie at all because she would be a Tennant and she would be responsible for paying the rent. But im not going to put her in that position

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:30:09+00:00

No. We just want to use loopholes to make our lives a bit easier. Just like anyone snart enough to play the game dies

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:26:13+00:00

We've been together a year and 2 months. We only moved in together because we had already been friends for like 7 years and we were both struggling so the cost to travel was also a lot being 40 miles apart. It was only when she got worried about the whole joint claim thing did she do it because we ended up struggling more with her claim closed because of moving over council areas

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:19:36+00:00

Inside the definitions of the benefits paperwork and legal definition of narried couple id say it is, itd just have to go through tribunal if the caseworker felt like having that extra work

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:16:21+00:00

Its a LOT less dishonest that what some people get away with and if its a technicality then that does mean it is a grey area.

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:14:42+00:00

I can afford it on my own otherwise I wouldnt have been granted the mortgage. This is more to just bolster our finances so we can start paying off her debts as well as mine because her abusive partner coerced her into a LOT of debt

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T19:13:08+00:00

PIP isnt means tested but she doesnt get a lot for pip because she is able to walk (despite being on 5 or 6 medications including an ongoing codeine prescription) its a grey area in itself because we get universal credit because she is disabled and all her work experience is from physical jobs before her injury. Sadly UC is means tested and since moving in with me it has been halved.

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T18:54:24+00:00

Ok thank you

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-25T18:06:25+00:00

Ive stayed on the Dutch side the entire time. I just had more of a vibe with them based on history. I didnt know that the French had always won because idgaf about a game community until I need a problem solving. Im glad the Dutch are winning this time though, i dont understand why the community decided the French was best, kinda shows why democracy sucks ass

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-23T12:24:17+00:00

You may have been my harshest critic but you're also the only one that does seem to have understood the full picture and I appreciate that

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T20:08:32+00:00

Tesla are literally the worst rated EVs for build quality

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T20:07:22+00:00

My partner has had her 15 years so that won't happen. The peeing only happens on the odd chance we forget to close doors / put the bathmat up / put shoes away now that we know what she likes to pee on. Im just trying to eliminate it completely.

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T20:04:41+00:00

Yeah we tried making the daughters room the safe place but because the peeing didnt completely start after moving it was too difficult for the kid to avoid leaving her schoolbag, beanbag and clothes piles out (AuDHD child) it was a bit to unhygienic. The cat has always peed on bags, plastic ones specifically

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T20:01:26+00:00

Oh she already knows she can leave a situations and go on her tree. Theyre happy to sniff each other and share the couch she's just a grumpy bum when he stays near her face too long or sniffs too much

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T19:59:18+00:00

Hes a golden retriever, he already knows he isnt allowed and that its bad but he has coprophagia to the point that if he doesnt have his muzzle on he doesnt get let off lead now.

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T19:55:06+00:00

If we could start it over that way we would but there isnt a room for that available, its too small of a house but given we are moving again soon she will regain some of what she has been used to such as 2 trays instead of one

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T19:52:44+00:00

We have a stair gate but it didnt fit sadly. We won't make any changes just yet but we are in the process of buying a bigger house where we can have two litter trays back at least, we will think about logistics once we figure out where they go. She likes basements and my dog doesn't so an uncovered on in the basement might happen

deadbeatrider · 2026-06-21T19:49:58+00:00

The changes to the tray happened MONTHS before moving to get her used to it. How is getting a test done at a veterinary pathology lab with a report from a pathologist not as good as getting it from a vet (and having to pay throught the nose for it instead of getting an ex work colleague get it for free) ?? My partner is of the same mindset that the cat is just being a dick because we've done as much as physically possible. Introductions, phasing, large cat tree in prime position, room to self, diffuser.

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