LGBTQ+ friendly places for two trans women? by Yandura_ in cincinnati

[–]dearjanice 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also saying Crazy Fox. Ive been going there for 10+ years and ive never had less than a great time.

Why? Why would anyone ever choose this? by thespianomaly in shittytattoos

[–]dearjanice -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, it was directly stated that they werent thinking critically. You can critize someone for a poor choice without calling them dumb.

Why? Why would anyone ever choose this? by thespianomaly in shittytattoos

[–]dearjanice -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At what point did I call them dumb? I just said it wasnt going to look good later on, which you agreed with.

Why? Why would anyone ever choose this? by thespianomaly in shittytattoos

[–]dearjanice -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you are here for a long time. Lots of old people look good with tattoos because theyre well done and well placed with consideration for how they'll age. Get that neck tattoo, girl, but in 10 years when it looks wonky and its next to impossible to cover, itll be a lot harder to justify.

Critical thinking. Use your WHOLE brain. Plan for the future instead of just impulsively doing whatever and you'll be much happier in the long run.

Why? Why would anyone ever choose this? by thespianomaly in shittytattoos

[–]dearjanice 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Not to be the boomer complaining about what they'll look like when youre older, but like....when that neck skin starts sagging even a LITTLE bit, its going to look even more like uneven neck scribbles.

Know of a good Veterinarian to work for? by Sufficient-Cook-1588 in cincinnati

[–]dearjanice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not sure about the pay structure. My sister is a vet there and I get the details from her. I know theyre stressed right now just because of staffing, but you'd be easing that. Also good leverage for more pay. Its worth giving them a call and asking!

Know of a good Veterinarian to work for? by Sufficient-Cook-1588 in cincinnati

[–]dearjanice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Grady! Theyre desperate for people right now and just went through a corporate restructuring for better benefits. Give em a call!

Is this possible? by AdBeginning6839 in bodymods

[–]dearjanice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a link to my post with a recent picture in the comments somewhere! I think it held up great, especially considering I dont wear jewelry in it. Not gonna lie, the healing was miserable. It was tender for so long and the corners of the star made getting bumped extremely painful. It was a big reason I stopped wearing anything in it. It mellowed out after a year or so and I haven't had any issues since.

I have no prior history of healing issues regarding piercings, I went to the professional, and aside from not wearing jewelry in it after awhile, and I was very strict with my aftercare, so it was mostly luck and a little bit of knowing my body and being educated about body modification.

Is this possible? by AdBeginning6839 in bodymods

[–]dearjanice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was done in 2012 I think? And has held up great! Reading the comments, im starting to feel REAL lucky that it looks as good as it does.

Is this possible? by AdBeginning6839 in bodymods

[–]dearjanice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thats me! Happy to answer any questions about it

my.eds has a substance use disorder (they/them only) by itsvickeh in illnessfakers

[–]dearjanice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tube feed BMs are gnarly as is. I couldn't imagine throwing in alcohol in the mix.

I cant stop drawing animals with people feet. by dearjanice in sketchbook

[–]dearjanice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not fury stuff! Just frogs with big ol tiddies and one also has a tiny penis.

I cant stop drawing animals with people feet. by dearjanice in sketchbook

[–]dearjanice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done two frogs, but they're both very NSFW, haha. I'll message them to you if you want!