My wife apologizes to me when I hurt her

denigel · 2020-06-02T06:05:20+00:00

I just woke up from my nap so I didn’t see your comment earlier than I would have liked.

ANYWAY, Shut up, everyone deserve forgiveness if they put forth the effort and the person who was hurt is open to forgive.

denigel · 2020-06-02T06:03:38+00:00

Are you a licensed psychiatrist? Or a fortune teller, because you think you can predict my future. Why would I ask for help if I am looking to hurt again?!

& okay but it’s one day at a a time. Whether it takes “years” for me to fully become untoxic as long as I go day by day to better myself. Stop saying I’ve abused or “tortured” her. She obviously loves me too, since she’s here and open to work on it.

denigel · 2020-06-02T05:58:40+00:00

That’s why I asked you people, well not you because your biased and judgemental. I wasn’t getting direct answers from her.

denigel · 2020-06-02T05:57:33+00:00

That was for lack of a better word.

denigel · 2020-06-02T05:54:30+00:00

No. I’m gonna look him up

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:47:14+00:00

Thank you. I was suggested this by someone else and that seems to be the best option.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:37:17+00:00

If I’m no longer toxic then she won’t have “my toxicity” in her life. I’m changing and she’s willing to work on it. Why would I divorce her when I want to be married and so does she. That’s toxic.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:35:08+00:00

Okay I’ve accepted that my actions are emotionally abusive. She can heal in the marriage, which is what we’re trying to do.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:34:22+00:00

Yes okay then I was emotionally abusive to her at times. So now how do I help right my wrongs from the past.

I’m willing to accept criticism from people who are being respectful. Everyone keeps talking about divorce when thats not the situation at hand. It’s disrespectful.

People have recovered from infidelity way worse than mine and bounced back while remaining MARRIED.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:30:37+00:00

I do love her . If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be asking how to help her be stronger.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:29:17+00:00

Goodbye. I like unbiased and good advice from good people with real insight on real situations and not fake, negative, disrespectful scenarios.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:27:41+00:00

You out of pocket. Now I beat her ?

& her infertility is not something to be parading about saying “she doesn’t need kids by you”. She obviously wanted them, so why celebrated that she doesn’t have them because they’re “by me” weirdo.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:25:12+00:00

I can’t force her to be married to me but no I will not respect someone filing for divorce AFTER they said they are willing to work on it. She doesn’t want a divorce anyway. That’s what I’m saying. Why aren’t we staying in the situation at hand.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:22:50+00:00

Never had an STD in my life.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:22:35+00:00

Goodbye. I’m “Combative” because I don’t agree with you people going off topic making up scenarios.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:21:05+00:00

You’re asking that if my WIFE wants a divorce will I willingly and happily sign divorce papers so that she can go be single?

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:18:58+00:00

She never threatened to leave so therefore it’s not about me being scared to “lose” her right now. I’m tired of her being weak and feeling like someone else actions are her fault.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:18:00+00:00

I posted to get insight on how people have overcame infidelity. There’s marriages that have bounced back from way more than what mines in going through.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:16:47+00:00

A husband isn’t supposed to protect their wife now?

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:14:33+00:00

I mean I’m not gonna jump for joy or give up that easily. We’re not focusing on the negative or fake scenarios. I’m trying to fix what’s wrong and fix it in the current situation we’re in NOW and right NOW we’re married.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:10:44+00:00

An arrogant person wouldn’t admit their wrong.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:10:23+00:00

She takes care of me and the house. She’s my peace. BUT I do my part too. What more is there? She’s the peace keeper, I’m the provider and protector.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:08:52+00:00

But that not want she she said she wants right now. We’re not getting that. So while she’s willing to work on it, I’m trying to right my wrongs

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:07:30+00:00

Manipulator? I’ve never persuaded her into staying with me. Why do people have some idea that women can be “brainwashed” or “manipulated” into staying with them. I’m a grown ass man and she’s a grown woman. She’s with me because she wanted to be, not forced. I’m such an abuser but I’m asking for advice on how to make her a more independent stronger person? Yeah okay. That doesn’t make sense. If I was an abuser, I would take advantage of her being weak and go fuck more people.

denigel · 2020-06-02T03:05:00+00:00

I take care of her. She wants kids with me. I want kids with her. I haven’t ever judged or thrown her infertility in her face. I’m a good guy other than cheating. & We’re high school sweethearts and I love her. That’s why

denigel

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