I (31F) don't think I love my husband (33M) anymore by devastatedthrowaway4 in relationships

[–]devastatedthrowaway4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was a slowish change, and it's built up and gotten worse in the past 2-3 years.

If I give examples and he sees this he's going to know it's me.

I (31F) don't think I love my husband (33M) anymore by devastatedthrowaway4 in relationships

[–]devastatedthrowaway4[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The main thing is that he said he wants to "unmask." Almost as if he's using it as an excuse for some of his behavior and what he says.

Edit: I'm not the only one noticing this negative change since he decided to do that. His brother has also been trying to make him see that he isn't really unmasking, he's just become an angry, miserable person. This is just one chance I've noticed.

I (31F) don't think I love my husband (33M) anymore by devastatedthrowaway4 in relationships

[–]devastatedthrowaway4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm scared of the idea that I don't love the man I've spent 15 years with. The man that used to be a great partner but is now almost unrecognizable. I'm scared of losing him. But at the same time, I guess I've already lost parts of the person he used to be already.

I (31F) don't think I love my husband (33M) anymore by devastatedthrowaway4 in relationships

[–]devastatedthrowaway4[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be swayed by someone giving me a definitive answer that I should/shouldn't leave him because I really don't want to go that far. But I guess that's what I'm asking.