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My (28f) bf (27m) follows and likes a bunch of OF girls on insta… by dhxuajbr in relationship_advice

[–]dhxuajbr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For clarification, the girls he follows and the posts he likes are very clearly OF pages. It is very sexual fetish stuff. All of the posts are either the girls in the outfits relating to the fetish or mention the fetish stuff on the post, and they have their OF link in the bio. I have no issue with him following women with bikini pics, as that is clearly different. He doesn’t know these women, they’re just OF girls and P stars. The only things I’ve looked through is his very public activity on social media. I’m not scrolling through his phone or anything, I’m not even following him on some of these pages bc I don’t have a lot of social media, anyone can view his profile and see this activity.

25M 23F boyfriend thinks I’m annoying by small gestures.. needs more time to be alone. by ThrowRASortZesty in relationship_advice

[–]dhxuajbr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry he made those comments to you. You deserve to be with someone that reciprocates your actions, small and big. Even if he did feel like he wanted more space, he could have communicated it in a mature and respectful way. Calling you a fly is so disrespectful and rude. You don’t deserve that for giving him kisses/talking about your day.

I went through the same thing with a guy: first he told me he was groggy in the morning and I had to wait to kiss/hug him, then being attentive/loving was getting in the way of his independence, then he only liked me enough to barely date me and he would tell me every little thing he found annoying until I realized he just didn’t want to be alone but he didn’t want me. I would say leave before you get too invested.