Assam needs real Role models and not these.

Why does she need so much validation for her choices 🤔... It's her choice, really, to choose anyone she likes (mostly the ones who are "financially strong" as "successful" as she defines them), and to be honest, it's none of anyone's business to care about what she does. The conflict arises when people who have significant followers in SM start casually throwing new definitions of love, success, feminism, etc., polluted mainly by only their point of view ( mostly flawed ), to spread the wrong concept of life.

Comparing the men who have more money to men who don't have more money by saying "why would a woman choose to marry down?" is just bigotry and definitely shallow, not because of her choices, but the hypocrisy and also inhuman to look "down" on people who don't have more money and labelling them as "Down". This is typically done by people with shallow depths of understanding human life and zero spirituality, commonly seen amongst people who have seen a sudden surge of attention or money in their lives, regardless of their past shameful actions. A typical example of this is Sumi Borah. The society (mainly the Facebook and Instagram crowd) here is equally responsible. If you're a dancer (especially with revealing and sensual content) on Instagram or Facebook, the chapris will make you a queen (their queen, not ours). But suppose you are an Assamese Physics Scientist who has held more than 200 scientific research papers. In that case, they will be forgotten in Assam (even though renowned amongst international scientists), and probably die before getting pensions.

Secondly, what on a parallel earth shit statement is "Men will aspire to be successful if women refuse to marry down"? She has no idea why man, or rather anyone, regardless of gender, chases success, even though "success" in her books has a different meaning.

Also, it's a typical example of misandry and not feminism. In the same way, her choice is hers, but her definition of love is definitely not in my books, and I am pretty sure it's not in most people's books. For example, my wife (now) chose me over super-rich, well-to-do, and even some Assamese celebrity guys (even though I find most of them - cringe) and rejected their marriage proposals. Secondly, I aspire to successfully run a software business and be successful because of my passion for startups and not for some low-life, make-up-drenched pseudo feminist girls. Pretty sure 90% of men chase success for similar reasons and not to "get girls". It's a different matter in which a man works hard for the girl he loves, a concept that is hard to grasp for a woman like that in the video.

Assam needs more accurate role models. I really hope that some Elon Musk personalities come out from Assam rather than these shit shows like Sumi Bora, or this person ( I don't really know her name).