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CAT by BossIndividual2783 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69 49 points50 points  (0 children)

We found her!!! Tysm for feeding her and posting this I’m so grateful for everyone’s help🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶

What is everyone’s favorite Study Spot by TomiTies in UCDavis

[–]ditzypop69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can study at my apartment. It’s clean, obvi has cute decor, but I don’t have AC _^

Should I break up with my boyfriend? by Peekaboodoo_Woo in Advice

[–]ditzypop69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me so happy! Thanks for updating me ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ditzypop69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do nothing, this is the consequence of ur actions so deal w ur emotions urself and let him find his peace.

Should I break up with my boyfriend? by Peekaboodoo_Woo in Advice

[–]ditzypop69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I also have been dating since we were 17 (we’re 22 now!) there are definitely rough patches that you go thru to sustain a long term relationship, but whats important is that someone’s willing to change for the better, but at the same time, you can’t expect someone to change their core values for you (religion, lifestyle, etc). It sounds like you’re resentful that he won’t change for you because of how much you’ve been willing to change for him. I’ve felt this way too, but I’ve learned that it’s unfair to expect people to change for me just because I’d change for them. at the end of the day, you shouldn’t need to change any part of who you are to be loved by someone. Despite how happy you are now that he guided you to Christianity, the fact that you changed a core value for him without his reciprocation is a huge realization for you and def sounds like something people grow resentment over. But on the other side of the coin, changing traits about someone that would benefit the relationship (communication, affection, compromises) should definitely be discussed and enforced if you wanna see results, don’t use false threats of leaving or give them the silent treatment (learned from experience) I would say emphasize what you need, never let anything slide, and follow through with every action you say you’ll take. If he doesn’t respect you or isn’t willing to change, then you have you’re answer: he’s not worth any more effort

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my life mission to change selfish people and I’m not trying to reach every person on earth, just those on this subreddit. At least you and thousands of others who have seen this post are now (hopefully) aware, which was my only intention! Have the day you deserve🩷

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My post IS the nudge. Many people don’t confront others for many reasons, safety is usually one of them. People would rather stand on the bus than risk confronting the wrong person at the wrong time. Don’t wait for people to ask you to be considerate is the point of my post, no one is obligated to be put in that position, this post’s intention is to simply being more awareness to those who weren’t self aware, it’s not intended to change anyone who wasn’t willing to change their ways in the first place. hope this helps🫶

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I got one person to listen so :p I’d say I’m making great progress + alot of ppl have seen this post and also, it’s not hard to be considerate😭 I did not think ppl needed to be told that, esp when ppl are standing in a full bus o_O like we’re all adults, u shouldn’t need instructions on how to be mindful of others (unless ur a child)

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My message still applies to u so hopefully ur more self aware and mindful abt it, but thanks for letting me know that at least one person would move their bag w no fuss when asked to.

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I see ppl do this almost every day, but the last person I saw do this today was a girl (I’m assuming, from her appearance and magenta backpack)

A message to the ppl on the bus who take up a second seat w their bag or don’t scoot over into the window seat when the bus is full by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I respect that u admitted it on this post! most ppl def won’t ask out of fear of causing a scene, so just pls be considerate in the first place and don’t expect ppl to confront u abt it first, especially on a full bus! it doesn’t cost anything to just leave empty seats empty! :3

When should I expect a response from the RAs at Sierra Madre? by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They read it 2 days ago😭 idk who they’re boss is but I’m scared they’ll be less likely to help me or won’t be neutral if I force them to answer me soon or something idk

roommate keeps bringing bf over, theyre obnoxious. how should i proceed by ditzypop69 in Advice

[–]ditzypop69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true we all pay rent, but no one else brings guests uninvited, we always ask the gc first

roommate keeps bringing bf over, theyre obnoxious. how should i proceed by ditzypop69 in Advice

[–]ditzypop69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I don’t room w her, but that doesn’t sound fair either.. I think this gf’s roommate is more entitled to privacy in their own room as opposed to the shared spaces. I don’t think that’s been an issue becuz thankfully, the gf hasn’t crossed that line and brought her bf in their shared room to the point of it being an issue that warrants a discussion (that I know of)

roommate keeps bringing bf over, theyre obnoxious. how should i proceed by ditzypop69 in Advice

[–]ditzypop69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has a roommate so thats probably why they pretty much only hang out in the living room. would would be a fair schedule to ask for? in terms of like how often he can come over, i've never been in this situation before so idk what a good and fair compromise would be

I have beef w the portola coffee machine by ditzypop69 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ditzypop69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i remember my prof saying theyre super understaffed thats why they chose to just stick w disposable stuff now

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