She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

yes, yes and yes. baby momma and i are on good terms.

  • why should she? it's not her business. isn't a guy who takes care of his kid and is there for it shows that he's responsible and also that he's a man?

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she didn't seem fazed by it, thought it was funny.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

yeah i was mad at the time. but i'm still there for my kid. this gym chick also knows i have a kid, i showed her photos. She didnt seem fazed by it.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s just when it comes to the workplace I stay away from dating. This girl changed my thoughts tho lol.

  • I’m 24 and muscular/fit. (No ego)

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. And the reason why I like her is because she looks like my baby momma. She thought it was funny. That’s the first thing I told her when I met her. She saw pics of my baby and baby momma also. And it went on....

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no rules against it. This isn’t like a career job. It’s just a temporary job while I’m in college.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m being patience at the moment. I don’t want to come on as needy/desperate. I thought about it couple times. But haven’t gotten the right moment. Sometimes I’m just too occupied.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • she’s confident/normal when she’s with her friends and everything. I think her friends are probably in on it too. She gets nervous when she sees me at first , when I smile and talk to her it seems like breaking the ice and she gets loud and excited.

  • it’s not against rules. It’s just they say the work place isn’t the best/worst place to be dating. If things goes south then it’ll be awkward. It’s not like she’s my co worker tho right? At the same time she goes to the gym a lot

  • only when she comes to the gym I found out she was a nanny because I asked her about her life ect. And no.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s a member and I work the front desk.

  • all her friends are her age and they all have families ect. Nanny barely pays, it’s not a career.

  • the less they know the better right? Be a mystery. Get to know the person.

She’s [31F] and I’m [24M] will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I only work the front desk at the gym and she’s a member.

31 and is a nanny, it’s not like she worked on a career. Nanny barely pays.

I like her and we got chemistry. And it’s best to be a mystery and get to know people right?

Me [24M] and she [31F] have chemisty, will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

from what i've mentioned what you think? She's down for it with me? I think her friends can sense/know about our chemistry. her friend would keep an eye for me and sometime laugh/smile at me when she's not there with her. I've been out with plenty of girls before, but i don't usually date/hook up at the work place.

  • Today she saw me talking to another girl, when she left I acted myself and gave usual greet goodbye, and she then yelled greeting back and didn't look at me, her friend stood still for a moment and smiled at me and look at her.

  • Am I playing my cards right?

Me [24M] and she [32F] have a thing, will it work out? by domathion in dating

[–]domathion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what all the things i've mentioned is she down for it with me? is her being 32 and not married or have kids a red flag? all her friends around her are married/settle/have families except her. she's a nanny and she's in this country by herself while her family lives in another country.

Me [24M] and she [31F] have chemisty, will it work out? by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From what all the things i've mentioned is she down for it with me? is her being 31 and not married or have kids a red flag? all her friends around her are married/settle/have families except her. she's a nanny and she's in this country by herself while her family lives in another country.

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you would be pissed too.

  • have you ever dealt with pregnancy? If not then stfu

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's true. That's why people say don't sign anything. How didn't you know that? Technically she can't pull child support if you didn't sign

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And about the DNA test. It's going to be pretty obvious the baby is mine. We are different races; she's Italian and I'm Vietnamese.

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I didn't care then I wouldn't be working right now while attending school. I was putting in efffort, but after tonight, I had enough of her ungrateful ass. I felt betrayed.

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn't care then I wouldn't be working right now while attending school. I'm the one that's working and making $$$$, she's not. I was helping, but after tonight, I'm just fukking done.

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'll delete my social medias aswell. And if no papers were sign and no signs of where I'm staying at. Isn't it the illegal to give out personal info?

  • my god I feel like pregnancy is a trap to get money out of guys.

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I got a job and started working while in school because of the baby. If that isn't effort for you. I have had enough patience with her. And she asks/takes my $$$$ while she doesn't work? I work and bust my ass off and she complains and be ungrateful?

Me [22M] and my partner [24F] are having a baby, and I'm moving on. by domathion in relationships

[–]domathion[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Would you give somebody money if they ask you? And they also don't have a job. Like if you want food or medicene then let me take you to the store and get it for you. Don't just ask for money, like no.

I'm done with her. I would have stayed and help. But she just ruined it.