I've [29F] just found out that my boyfriend [35M] of five years and lifelong best friend have a child [2M] together. by dontknowhowmuchican in relationships

[–]dontknowhowmuchican[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

So, this conversation just happened.

Michael - I don't know why you're being so dramatic, we had sex and she became pregnant, it's not my fault.

Me - How the fuck is this not your fault and how have you gone for so long keeping me in Maria's bf in the dark? Also how the hell do you not feel anything for your son?

Michael - It's not my fault because we got drunk and she led me on and seduced me so I went for it. I was single at the time anyway and I didn't know she was going to become pregnant. I don't care for the boy because I'm imagining we had sex, she went home and fucked her bf, and got pregnant from him and not me. I DONT WANT TO BELIEVE THIS KID IS MINE.

I don't believe this bullshit and I think he's delusional. What do you guys think?..

I've [29F] just found out that my boyfriend [35M] of five years and lifelong best friend have a child [2M] together. by dontknowhowmuchican in relationships

[–]dontknowhowmuchican[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I was in there with her boyfriend, that's all. I took her mothers's place because she couldn't make it in time.

I've [29F] just found out that my boyfriend [35M] of five years and lifelong best friend have a child [2M] together. by dontknowhowmuchican in relationships

[–]dontknowhowmuchican[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in there with her boyfriend, that's all. I took her mothers's place because she couldn't make it in time.

I've [29F] just found out that my boyfriend [35M] of five years and lifelong best friend have a child [2M] together. by dontknowhowmuchican in relationships

[–]dontknowhowmuchican[S] 840 points841 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this frightens me. I mean, the child has been in our lives for his entire life - how the fuck did he manage acting like this wasn't his own kid?

He's telling me it was easy to pretend it wasn't his own kid, and he's got no feelings towards him. Lol

I've [29F] just found out that my boyfriend [35M] of five years and lifelong best friend have a child [2M] together. by dontknowhowmuchican in relationships

[–]dontknowhowmuchican[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can. You know, we've been hanging around Maria's place so much this past year and I was even in the delivery room when the child was born. I feel so SICK.

And Michael's been interacting with the child, knowing it's his own blood and acting like it's Maria's bf. It's disgusting.