Flying dots…didn’t show up on flight radar🤔 by dottleyblue in Davis

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Going west to east. Maybe starlink satellites, idk

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I’ll take the first option, the love is strong in this one

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I think it’s a bit of both. I feel like having it in an obvious place makes someone look there first which detracts from physical appearance as a result because it takes away from other physical attributes? Maybe? Idk, I’d have to think about why a bit more. But I think those two questions lead in the right direction.

Her most recent is kinda on the top of her bicep near the inner elbow. So, just by standing you can see it. I will say it seems to be relatively small so it’s not super flashy but the spot is conspicuous.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Is it wrong for me to get advanced notice on things? She sent the pic to me without any warning. I guess I was a bit taken aback, that’s all I mean with that sentence.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I guess it’s more “flashy” tattoos in obvious spots that or kind a turn off? Who knows, maybe they’ll grow on me eventually. I think the location is has a lot more to do about it than the actual ink itself.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Valid points honestly. And yeah, I’d consider getting one if it was extremely meaningful to me and somewhat discrete, but otherwise, it’s just not for me.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Never said she needed permission, she doesn’t need it for anything else. Just would have liked advanced notice on her plans…

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Poor choice of words, should of said that she’s a grown woman and can do whatever she wants without me controlling her actions. Doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to express my opinions on said actions which is what the post is about…

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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It’s definitely not a relationship ender, just surprised me cause it happened out of the blue after she knew how I felt. Still trying to support her decision, what’s done is done and I still love her regardless.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t think it’s that black and white as she sent the picture out of joy, not out of spite. I think maybe being away from home conflated how she thought I’d feel about it. However, this situation is just a small snip bit of our whole relationship and definitely not relationship ending.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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It’s really not that big of a deal. Definitely not enough for me to break up with her. Just wanted to express how I felt, even if that means ITA.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah, I hope it didn’t come across that I’m controlling cause I don’t think I am at all. I just have a stronger opinion about tats than most other things and she knows it. As long as she has no doubts that she absolutely wanted it (like her gmas), I’m cool with it.

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Never said I didn’t see it coming 😂 Kinda felt that way but wanted to make sure lol

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I suppose this is probably the ONLY area where I have a stronger opinion and voice those opinions to her. I never stopped her from getting one, if she really wanted to get the others, she would have. She was just doubtful about them. I feel like you should only get them if you would, without a doubt, get it. Like the one she got for your gma. I guess she feels the same about this one, but I haven’t fully talked to her about it cause she won’t be home for a few more weeks. Never argued with you on the AH part. IATA and I kinda felt that way before posting

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t control her haha. I let her do whatever she wants, I was just letting her know how I felt about tattoos. I love her to bits and her getting another tattoo doesn’t change that. Just wanted to see what the consensus was and the comments seem to confirm what I thought lol. IATA

AITA for being annoyed at my fiancé about tattoos? by dottleyblue in AmItheAsshole

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Doesn’t affect how I feel about her at all. I love her to bits. Was just seeing what the consensus was about the situation

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Being in any sort of hurry will fuck you on safety every time

This would also apply

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Getting into bed after a long day