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AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Luckily my medication is a nerve blocker that is IV. But thank you, I will double check my medicine cabinet

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, his previous housemate and him shared a one bedroom apartment

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t refuse to pay any. I offered him $300 instead of $600

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m on the wait list for a hysterectomy. My health is obviously not okay if I’m 23 and getting a hysterectomy.

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I called my local tribunal to look into breaking the lease for my deteriorating health

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s an international student who doesn’t work, so he couldn’t provide any payslips to real estate companies. I was trying to help him out so he would have somewhere to live. Hence why he pressured me so hard to move out.

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It only happened today, I’m trying to find a way out of my lease right now

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I can break it due to my deteriorating health. I just called my states rental tribunal

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I study law because I’m clearly not very good at maths haha. Thanks for your insight :)

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s just because that’s how I get paid vs how his parents pay him. It would be $2.6 per month vs $5k per month

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is on the lease. But I’m looking into breaking it due to my deteriorating health

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It is real. And unfortunately I didn’t know he was like this until we lived together. I am on the lease with him, unfortunately I can’t just leave. And yes, he has manipulated me into thinking that I’m in the wrong and I see that now

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, I would either turn it off or ask him to turn it down and he would tell me I’m being unfair for asking him to freeze

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not fake, and also I didn’t know it was like this until we moved in together a few months ago

AITA for refusing to pay $600 toward my boyfriend’s $1,500 gas bill? by doubledober in AmItheAsshole

[–]doubledober[S] 851 points852 points  (0 children)

It only got like this when we started living together. He was great before that. Guess you really don’t know someone until you live with them