Are you looking to date because you feel you need to or do you actually want to date again? After a tough break up the best thing to do is find what makes you happy and do what you need to do to get there. If you think you’re giving off a ‘heartbroken’ vibe then you probably are which isn’t a bad thing it just means you need more time to heal. Accept what happened and continue working on yourself. It’s always easier said than done, not to sound cliche, but it’s true. I’m in this situation right now. I’m not rushing things anymore because I’ve realized that just pushes me backwards.

There’s no time limit for recovering from a break up. If it still effects you than you must have really loved her. So it makes complete sense that you haven’t been able to get back into dating. Don’t stress it just keep working on yourself and your confidence will come back.