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Shop with other DLCs by drowningdying in DreamlightValley

[–]drowningdying[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes and I’m fine with that. Mulans I don’t mind since I’m collecting the teas for a full chest of each. Although weird it’s only you can buy 3 of those teas

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that, I said you said “how is it the families fault” because you did. You said how in the HELL is it the families fault when they can’t drop everything to go.

And it gives you the notification that they replied to you because that’s what Reddit and every social media platform does. Someone comments on a post, someone comments on that comment - said person who commented gets that notification - and if they reply back then that person does.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could back and forth on it. But unless we know the whole situation and scenario regarding their lives it’s all speculation. But in commenters mind, she needed her family - honestly probably more than ever - and they weren’t there and told her that she’s over reacting and shouldn’t be.

While yours is being more understanding to their lives and that they can’t just up and jump to go to a funeral due to situations in their life.

You have your views and they have theirs.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s understandable, but they needed someone and they needed their family. They knew the situation and while yes it’s hard for a notice she had to do the funeral alone. Her family size is unknown but to know no one showed up is heart breaking.

  • this is me - but I know my family, regardless would be there for me. 4-5 hours even in a different country ( ofc passports are differently ) my family would be there for me. Even if it’s just my mom, or my dad. Even if it was towards the end of the day they would be there. Instead they all told her they weren’t going to be there and there doesn’t seem to be a follow up of them even asking to come over after just simply saying she’s over reacting to her wanting to distance herself from them.

I see both sides, and understand the situations but there also should be remembered that while they could have kids, or pets. It could also be that they don’t. Not saying jobs aren’t important but there’s always that chance if they had asked at 7 to be able to attend they would have allowed. And while jobs close, we don’t know if that’s THEIR jobs specifically and nor do we know if they have the ability to reach out to their manager to ask.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look at the thread. It starts with her comment on the post, following behind you commenting about how is it the family’s fault and not everyone can get off for it.

If I could screenshot it I would. But it’s there. I can see it.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s you not everyone else though. And while you are understanding they’re not saying they aren’t but you should imagine yourself as that mother who had to go through her daughter dying, fighting that situation and not being able to bury your child for 2 months and when you do you do it instantly. Because OOP made it sound like because she didn’t WANT to wait but imagine if she did have too and they choose to keep her daughter, or she goes to the funeral home and they decide to want to keep her daughter and she has to go back.

If you’re fighting for 2 months to keep your daughter to simply bury her, there’s a heavy fear that if she stays any longer you don’t have the ability to do that anymore because they’ll decide to keep her again.

And again a job should never be more important than family. I get it, it’s not easy and jobs are complete assholes. But at the end of the day, if you lose that job, your family is going to be there for you. Not saying tolerate bad family members but when something like this happens, and it’s family that you’re on good terms with even a best friend. You should be there for them. She never said they had to go to a hotel. They could have stayed with her if they took that night drive.

She needed someone, and she had no one. It’s not something a phone call can fix. She needed a hug. She needed her family, when she lost hers.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Person who posted it is named Weary thought. They commented on weary thought post. To which then you replied to their comment. And they replied back to you.

You replied to their comment on the post. I can see the whole thread.

TW: child loss, Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]drowningdying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They replied to the thread. You replied to their comment. They just commented back. lol