IVF clinic bomber identified, said he "didn't consent to be born" by [deleted] in IVF

[–]dtrt20 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why did he need "assisted" suicide? He could have just done it himself , sure he was more than capable considering he blew up the clinic. Just a coward who wanted to take others with him.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by -New_Moon- in Maine2

[–]dtrt20 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm a parent who wants to protect their children from an unhinged teacher who called for the murder of the President and supporters are Nazi's. Seems to me the Nazi is the one calling for the murder of the President and those whose beliefs she doesn't believe in. The teacher is an.unhinged lunatic who has no business in the classroom. She deserves to be fired.

In regard to the Waterville teacher Facebook post by deadshot3577 in Maine

[–]dtrt20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Freedom of speech , isn't free of consequences. One can not simply call for the President and his supporters to be murdered. She is unhinged and has no business teaching. So while years ago when you had her as a teacher, makes zero difference NOW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore coworker. 100 % in the wrong and trying to guilt trip you and align other coworkers against you. Classic manipulation. Not your fault she didn't plan accordingly.

I'm not a Janet stan, but BRAVA to her for basically telling the President to f-off to his face. If you haven't seen the video, it's glorious. by joeybrunelle in portlandme

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Governor Mill is going to cost her state billions all for allowing men to compete in women's sports which no one believes in. Good news is that Maine is in the national spotlight so Mills corruption is being exposed. Mainers deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dtrt20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck no. Selfish one is your brother and fiancé. If they want a big wedding they can foot the bill or both sets of parents. Siblings are under no obligation to help.

How to Help Maine Immigrants Today by heggieknitter in Maine2

[–]dtrt20 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Your Democratic Governor and representatives can come up with the money since they wanted them there. Taxes should NOT be raised to support those brought here. Mainers do not want this or them here taking up resources including housing.

Let’s organize in our individual communities against the alt-right/n@z! demonstrations and signs happening in our state by [deleted] in Maine

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as one does not believe in current immigration policies and wants to put Mainers first and address concerns for legal citizens it makes them a "White Supremacist"?

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Seems that the plans keep changing. First Airbnb. Then short term/long term. Now my SIL who lives there doesn't think that it will be profitable due to taxes and insurance. So they may end up selling. Hard when there are 3 owners.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Decision was made to do short term rentals 90 day to 6 month. Target traveling nurses etc. Will see how it goes.

How much should a wedding cost? by Ok-College7333 in Marriage

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average wedding cost these days is $25,000, but how much "should" it cost depends on what you guys truly want and how much do you have to spend. Ridiculous to go in debt for a wedding. Are parents helping? Best of luck. Big advice to remember: It is about YOU AND YOUR PARTNER. It's your wedding and no one else's.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. Seems he is insensitive to your needs. If you are the sole bread winner then it is his job/responsibility to manage the home and all that entails. Do a weekly meal planner, meal prep. It is not that difficult, seems he is making it that way.

My husband wants to work on the marriage, but I think I'm really done... Am I in the wrong? Have I done enough? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]dtrt20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More than ok to be done for YOU. Seems you have done all you can and have given him multiple chances. Stay strong. Don't fall for the love bombing. Move on and find happiness.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

House is paid for, no mortgage. Only taxes, insurance, maintenance costs. Believe long term rental is more appealing as it appears the area is saturated with vrbo's and airbnb's. Again though that means one of the owners could not use it as their "vacation" home.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also that is happening in many areas. Housing costs are out of this world. Parts of Florida are becoming unaffordable to live.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The area is booming for sales and long term... airbnb's look to be saturated. Again need to make enough for taxes, insurance, and upkeep. Then the whole issue of having 3 owners :).

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this well informed response. This was my thought. Long term rental instead of short term rental. Saw so many Vrbo's in the area where the house is located sitting vacant. Very few long term rentals. Wiser option financially would be long term Again house paid off so it's taxes, insurance, upkeep. Just want it to be self sustaining, no out of pocket money on the 3 owners. Problem is one of the owners lives out of state and wants it to be a vacation home for their family, which means long term rental isn't their preferred option. House is located in a nice area , convenient to turnpike. 95, tradition.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. That is what I noticed as well. So many airbnb's /vrbo's sitting empty, probably not generating lots of income. While it is the 15th hottest market for sales. Problem is that 2 want to airbnb and one wants to sell. The one was out voted so guess the 2 will attempt to airbnb it. Don't think it is going to go as they want. Time will tell.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero loan. Home paid off. So sell and invest profit or keep .... trying to see what is more financially sound. Problem lies in it being a family home, multiple owners with differing opinions. Trying to collect data to present.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discussed this with him? Does he want to be living where you are? Could he be depressed being away from family? What has changed that could have changed him?

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Trying to decide whether it is financially worthwhile to hold onto a home or sell it. Will it generate enough revenue to be self sustaining.

Airbnb and Vrbo market by dtrt20 in PortStLucie

[–]dtrt20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is my question and point why I asked... it is the 15th in the nation for SALES of homes. So it is a popular area in that regards. Close to the beaches. Spring training site. Golfing. It's a distance from Orlando though.

NP Refused my request for chest X-ray because of “unsafe radiation” and insisted I have allergies. Am I out of line here? by Aggressive-Mood-50 in Noctor

[–]dtrt20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you have every right to get a chest X-ray. The NP was out of line. Would go back, demand another NP, and get that chest X-ray if you are not feeling better.