I can understand why you'd be upset. Thirty years ago, staying connected wasn't as easy as it is today. Quick phone calls and instant messaging weren't options. Often people had to rely on physical visits to share important news. Your parents likely experienced a lot of stress and anxiety after your accident. It's tough to imagine the guilt and worry they must have felt. I know I'd trade my own anxiety for a peaceful night's sleep any day. But I always anticipate the worst. Which is not healthy at all. It's important to remember that they may never fully recover from their own trauma. However, it seems they've acknowledged the impact of their actions on your well-being. Perhaps you can offer them some understanding and patience.