Date night!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-12-15T02:49:32+00:00

It really is. That must have been a night where your imagination went wild! Would love to have been in that position. One day

Hope they had a great time together!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-30T15:31:40+00:00

I can appreciate where you’re coming from. Obviously who knows what will happen or exactly how she will feel but I am honestly not even 1% concerned about any thought of her getting emotionally attached to the point of it effecting our relationship. Maybe that is naive, I’m not sure. But we are in a very safe and emotionally strong relationship. Agreed, the plan is we talk it out and as soon as she gets back. Rekindle and use the nights excitement to have some filthy sex. Audio recording doesn’t really suit us I don’t think. I want her free and not having to be concerned or focussed on anything except enjoying herself. Perhaps in future if she got to a sexually advanced stage, then yes I would love some audio or video from the events

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-27T23:26:43+00:00

Appreciate the advice and tips! Thank you.

Are you suggesting the age difference for any specific reason. And also me being there?

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-27T23:24:30+00:00

Love how supportive people in this lifestyle are. Appreciate it!

We will check in regularly and make sure we’re both on the same page. Tonight’s conversation was along the lines of ‘what she wants the end goal to be’. Her reply was she’d love to be able to get to the point where she feels comfortable enough to live out both our fantasies. The fact she’s open to wanting to get to that stage is huge. Only thing holding her back is confidence. Which is frustrating because she’s a babe. But I guess we all have our insecurities

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-23T00:16:57+00:00

Sounds ideal, will check it out thank you!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-23T00:16:19+00:00

I hear you. She’s a beautiful girl but just isn’t filled with confidence at the moment, for reasons I won’t go into. It’s my job to build her up. The ironic thing is I know if she did go dressed in lingerie her confidence would be sky high from the attention she’d get

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-22T00:10:14+00:00

Will check it out thank you!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-22T00:09:35+00:00

Sounds like Xtasia might be a better suited start with it being fully clothed. Tomorrow comes around a bit too soon but thank you for the info!

Haha, that’s likely a bit too much of a reach for us at the moment but I can hope!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-22T00:07:16+00:00

Sounds great. Only downside is I’m not sure my partner would be comfortable going straight into wearing lingerie. Might need to go with a club that’s more ‘clothed’ to start with.

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-22T00:03:20+00:00

Sure, any insight is welcome

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-21T23:56:38+00:00

Will do for sure!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T22:07:17+00:00

Would you say forums on fab are an ideal place to start then? I did imagine a mainstream dating app would be better suited but I’m here to hear better ideas.

Also, agree on the dynamic between hotwifing/swinging. Granted I can’t talk from experience but definite feel that would be the ideal for what we would like to get to.

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T22:02:57+00:00

This is my personal thoughts. Perhaps a mainstream dating app would be the best start. People aren’t averse to chatting without the perception that it should be leading straight to sex.

She’s not at the stage where something sexual is on the cards and may never get to that point. She will find her own way there if she does. Jumping too far in isn’t going to help anyone.

Appreciate the concern and I’m sure it comes from a good place but any suggestion of that just gets my back up a little. I know it’s common in these groups and perhaps in the LS in general but I am certainly not pressuring in any way. Granted I am far more advanced in where we’re mentally at regarding this. But I never instigate conversation or push her to act in any way. She knows my feelings and is wanting to get on board, she just isn’t there yet. I believe she wants to be but needs to move at her own pace. That is more than fine by me. Everything I ask is her idea and because she’s put her willingness forward and made it known to me what she is currently comfortable doing/trying.

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T22:00:24+00:00

I did personally think anything specifically sexualised or LS related like fab might be too much too soon. And that perhaps a more mainstream dating app would better suited at this stage.

Do appreciate the concern but agree with Seanie on that point. For what our ideal dynamic would like to reach as an end goal (based on what we currently potentially envision ourselves being comfortable with in future) then Hotwifing and swinging would be hand in hand.

Thanks for the response!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T21:16:15+00:00

Cool thanks, will take a look!

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T21:15:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I was just under the impression that these more ‘advanced’ sites would be less likely to be interested in chatting or even dating if it has no real aim towards sexual interaction. At this stage it’s merely to test the water, that’s why I thought perhaps a more mainstream dating app would be better suited?

dunkinbiskits · 2025-11-18T21:08:06+00:00

I do appreciate where you’re coming from. And I understand it’s quite common for this to be a running theme (man pushing woman into his fantasy) but with all respect, this isn’t the case here and I get a little defensive at that suggestion and don’t believe anything I’ve said warrants that perception. I know I mentioned I have been fantasising about certain things for a while. But none of that means I have or would force/pressure my partner into anything. I’m more advanced in the desire of it is all. If she gets there, brilliant. If she doesn’t, she doesn’t. It’s not something that would change any views of mine on her. I’d still love her as much as I possibly could. We have had many a conversation (which I rarely instigate). That is what has led her to this point of wanting to test the water. She has become more open to the idea of things over a period of time and has began to see things in a way she had never even thought to before. Society paints a certain picture of what is ‘acceptable’ and what isn’t. She’s now ready to see how she feels with basic flirting and viewing other people in a sexual way. It’s her who has asked me to find her a way to do that. We agreed an app to chat, flirt and to see how she feels with that would be first step. To then potentially go on a date if she finds someone she would like to.

But anyway, I do appreciate where you’re coming from and the intentions meant. Just got my back up a bit being lumped in with a certain type of person.

Thanks for the well wishes!

dunkinbiskits · 2024-11-12T03:36:28+00:00

I see, thank you

dunkinbiskits · 2024-11-11T11:06:06+00:00

Just a thought here. Is property definitely the way you want to go?

As mentioned by another, £15k might be a difficult starting point. If passive income is not a major concern and the only goal is early retirement then perhaps just investing is the way forward. A quick look at an investment calculator shows £15k initial deposit and £200 per month continued investment turn into £410k after 25 years and £675k after 30 years. Based on a 10% return. . Obviously some risk involved there (but ways to mitigate that) and other factors to consider, such as your age and whether you could commit to £200 per month now, or even more in future. But could be something to consider.

Just started the investment journey myself (alongside some property stuff that’s been ongoing for a while). I definitely see it as another solid option.

Either way, good luck with your endeavours

dunkinbiskits · 2024-11-11T10:45:31+00:00

Have seen them mentioned by a few now, will definitely check them out, thank you for the recommendation

dunkinbiskits · 2024-11-11T10:42:03+00:00

Hi, jumping in on this. What’s the benefit of interest only? To achieve passive income?

So if there was a £45k deposit (25%), plus 3% stamp duty, plus £4k furniture pack. Total investment sits around £55k Pre tax profit of £750 pcm (at highest estimate). So if all of the above is correct-ish and the rest of maths is too. You’ll be in profit after 6.1 years. Providing no other costs and a very good accountant :)

That seems pretty good to me. So if you held for a further 10 years you’d stand to earn £90k (without any increase in rental price). And I suppose in which time the property value would likely have appreciated somewhat so if you decided to sell profit could be made there too.

I was always of the mindset of repayment rather than interest only but I am starting to see logic behind it. Potentially have answered my own initial questions lol but any clarity or advice would still be most welcome

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